Beruren, we are lifting you up in prayer as you seek a husband. We believe that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and we trust that He will provide a godly spouse for you in His perfect timing.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the importance of seeking God's will in this matter. The Bible tells us in Psalm 37:4, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in the Lord and seek His kingdom first, He will guide you to the man who is meant to be your husband and a Between a man and a woman is the only marriage God will honor and bless. You two shall live together according to God's plan and purpose, a long and fulfilling marriage.
We also encourage you to be patient and trust in God's timing. In Isaiah 64:4, we read, "For since the beginning of the world, people have not heard, nor perceived by the ear, nor has the eye seen, O God, besides you, what he has prepared for him who waits for him." God has a blessing and a future that is beyond our expectations for you who will wait on him. God will prepare you a godly husband who is going to help you serve God and fulfill his purposes for both of your lives. This will be the godly purpose of your future marriage.
As you wait, we pray trying to be as close to God as possible is your first priority. Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you, and you being a child of god, you will find a man who is also a child of God. 1 Peter 2:9 says "But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession, that you may proclaim the excellence of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light." Leave the search for a husband to the Lord, seek first his righteousness, and delight yourself in the Lord. You do not need to worry, fret or be anxious for a husband. The unrighteous worry for those things, but God will provide all your needs according to his riches. Follow the Bible's guidance and focus your energy on serving and loving God. And if you make marriage secondary and instead make knowing God and following his will, the Lord will provide you a husband at the proper time. Like the Lord made Eve, the perfect mate for Adam and brought her to Adam, the Lord will choose the perfect husband for you too. girls looking for husbands or boys seeking wives should not be looking for a partner for a romantic relationship for the sake of emotions or fufillment. A marriage is ordained by God and it has a purpose.
Do not compromise and be in courtship with any man who has goals and aspirations that do not align with God's will.Continue to "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." In Proverbs 3:5 and 6. Trust him for your husband and family of your future. Do not forget to pray for him too, that God will prepare him for your life together.
We also want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6 ""Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father and the only wise God,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Beruren as she seeks a godly marriage. Lord, we ask that You guide her steps and prepare her heart for the husband You have chosen for her. Help her to delight in You and seek Your will above all else, knowing that You have a good plan. Give her patience and peace and trust You to have your perfect Will in the timing. Protect her from any temptations and emotional decisions and guide her with Your Holy Spirit. Help her to serve you and be a beacon of your light among people. And before you bring the man you have chosen for her, prepare him and let him also rely on you first. You alone be the ruler of their courtship and prosper it into a marriage in Your time and your time alone. And during that time let them both seek you first. Let them love you with all their hearts and all of their thoughts and all their minds. And let them lean not onto their own understandings and submit their thoughts and emotions unto you. Let them come before You with clean hearts and clinging onto the righteousness You give them through Your Son Jesus. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen.