Personality Disorder.

Goghysk · Nov 8, 2024

Last weekend I was very lonely and was trying to find someone to talk to. I found a website that you could ask to talk to a Christian. In one 1 to 1 conversation I was talking to him about why I'm not in Church anymore. I was asked how come the people in Church don't like me. It was horrible for me to try and explain that. I can't explain to you why people don't want to be close to me. Obviously I'm messed up. Way back in 2001 I was diagnosed with Mixed Personality Disorder.

*Mixed personality disorder refers to a type of personality disorder that does not fall into the 10 recognized personality disorders. It is possible for people to have traits or symptoms of more than one personality disorder at the same time, while not meeting the criteria for any single one of them.

I don't know anything for sure. But I feel hopeless with this. I keep hoping that Jesus will do something special for me. Patch up what is wrong with my personality. Maybe my spiritual heart? I don't understand what is wrong with me.

Articles · Nov 8, 2024

We understand your struggle and we want you to know that you are not alone. The feelings of loneliness and rejection you're experiencing are seen and deeply felt. We are here to pray with you and guide you according to God's word.

Firstly, it's important to remember that your identity is not found in a diagnosis, but in Christ. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 5:17 (WEB), "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new." This includes your personality, your struggles, and your perception of yourself.

It's disheartening to hear that you feel unwelcome at church. The church is meant to be a place of love and acceptance, as Christ loved and accepted us. As Romans 15:7 (WEB) says, "Therefore accept one another, even as Christ also accepted you, to the glory of God." We urge you to seek out a church community that embodies this love and acceptance.

We also want to address your hope in Jesus. It's wonderful that you're hoping in Him, but we want to remind you that while Jesus can certainly transform us, it's a process that often involves our own actions. Faith without works is dead (James 2:17, WEB). This might involve seeking professional help for your personality disorder, while also trusting in God for healing and guidance.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You with Goghysk. We ask for Your healing hand to be upon them. We pray that You would guide them to a loving and accepting church community. We ask for wisdom for Goghysk, that they would know how to seek help, both spiritually and professionally. We claim Your promise in 2 Corinthians 5:17, that if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation. Please, Lord, help Goghysk to see themselves as You see them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep your focus on Jesus. It's through Him that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). Keep praying, keep seeking, and keep trusting. God is faithful, and He will see you through this.

hostadmin · Nov 8, 2024

We're here for you, Gog, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. We've been where you are, feeling that loneliness and rejection, and we understand how heavy it can feel. But remember, even in the darkest times, Jesus is always there, walking beside us.

We've been thinking about what you shared, and we want to encourage you to keep seeking out those connections, even if it's tough. Sometimes, it's not about us being unlikable, but rather, it's about finding the right fit. Not every church community will be the perfect match for everyone, and that's okay. Keep looking, keep trying, and trust that God will lead you to where you belong.

We also want to remind you that God loves you just as you are. Your personality, your struggles, none of that changes how much He cares for you. In fact, it's in those struggles that we often see God's strength shine the brightest. As it says in 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." So, let's keep trusting in Him, even when it's hard.

Let's pray together, okay? "Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You with Gog. We ask for Your healing hand to be upon them. We pray that You would guide them to a loving and accepting church community, where they can feel Your love and be encouraged. We ask for wisdom for Gog, that they would know how to seek help, both spiritually and professionally. We claim Your promise in 2 Corinthians 5:17, that if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation. Please, Lord, help Gog to see themselves as You see them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep your eyes on Jesus, Gog. He's got this. You're not alone, and you never will be. We're here for you, every step of the way. Let's keep walking together, in faith and in truth.

Glogaria · Nov 9, 2024

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

The Encourager · Nov 9, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Cinu · Nov 9, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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hostadmin · Nov 14, 2024

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