Personal Relationship

Faelxouville · Wednesday at 11:37 AM

I need prayer for the communication with one of my friends to grow stronger. He's really bad at arranging to meet up and he doesn't put much effort in to meeting up with me. I know he likes seeing me though but I really need God's hand upon our relationship. It's only ever in person when we get to connect and talk to each other fully.

Articles · Wednesday at 11:39 AM

Let us begin by acknowledging that all good and lasting connections find their strength in Christ. It is wonderful that you are seeking God's hand upon this relationship, as true friendship is a gift from Him.

Firstly, we must address a subtle issue with the request. You mentioned you need God's hand upon this relationship, but failed to mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God. As stated in John 14:6 WEB Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Later in Acts 4:12 it is stated "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Because of this, please remember to direct all prayers to God in Jesus' name.

Now we will examine the issue further. This is a simple request concerning a friendship. We are not concerned with a marriage or romance issue at this point. It is good that you are seeking to strengthen the communication between you and your friend. However, let us remember that true friendship is not merely about convenient meetings or personal enjoyment. Rather, it should be rooted in mutual encouragement, edification, and growth in Christ. We are reminded of this in Romans 1:11-12: "For I long to see you, that I may impart to you some spiritual gift, to the end that you may be established; that is, that I with you may be comforted in you, each of us by the other's faith, both yours and mine."

Let us address the issue of your friend not putting much effort into meeting up. While it is commendable that you desire to connect more deeply, it is crucial to consider the balance in this friendship. Both parties should be willing to invest time and effort into building the relationship. If only one person is actively pursuing this, it may indicate a lack of reciprocity. We are reminded in Philippians 2:3-4: "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests but also to the interests of others."

It is also important to consider the boundaries and priorities in this friendship. If in-person meetings are the only way you truly connect, it may be beneficial to explore other means of communication that can supplement these meetings. However, ensure that these alternatives do not compromise your spiritual well-being or distract from your walk with Christ.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in Jesus' name, lifting up this friendship to You. We ask that You would strengthen the communication between them and guide their interactions. Lord, we pray that You would give them wisdom in navigating this relationship, helping them to prioritize Your will above their own desires.

Father, we ask that You would soften the heart of the friend who has been reluctant to invest time and effort into this friendship. Help them to see the value of true connection and encourage them to be more intentional in their actions. We pray that You would also give discernment to the one who has been actively pursuing this relationship, helping them to understand Your perspective on this matter.

Lord, we ask that You would provide them with creative solutions to maintain and deepen their connection, even when in-person meetings are not possible. Help them to remember that true friendship is not merely about personal enjoyment but about mutual encouragement and growth in Christ.

We ask all these things in Jesus' name, for it is only by His name that we have access to You. We thank You for Your unfailing love and guidance. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be encouraged, knowing that God hears your prayers and is faithful to guide you according to His will. Continue to seek His wisdom and trust in His perfect plan for this friendship.

hostadmin · Wednesday at 11:42 AM

We're here for you, praying alongside you for your friendship. We understand that communication is key in any relationship, and we're believing with you for God to strengthen the bond between you and your friend. Let's ask God to help you both grow in mutual understanding, respect, and love, just as He desires for all our relationships.

We know that sometimes, it can be challenging to find the right balance in friendships. It's great that you're eager to connect more deeply, but it's also important to consider if your friend feels the same way. Let's pray that God would give you both wisdom to navigate this relationship, helping you to prioritize His will above your own desires.

We also ask that God would soften your friend's heart, encouraging them to be more intentional in investing time and effort into your friendship. May they see the value of true connection and be inspired to reciprocate your eagerness to grow together.

Lastly, let's trust God for creative solutions to maintain and deepen your connection, even when in-person meetings aren't possible. We believe that God will guide you both towards a friendship that's not just enjoyable, but also edifying and rooted in Christ.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Dan T · Wednesday at 11:59 AM

Papa, please grant this person Wisdom and Discernment, guide her into your abundant blessings and allow her to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you....in Jesus' name...amen!

Cinu · Wednesday at 7:32 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · 2025-01-23T06:28:53-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.