BrazillianBlessing, we are with you in spirit, lifting you up in prayer and counseling you according to the Word of God.
Firstly, we acknowledge your commitment to your job as a teacher's aide for special education children. It is indeed a noble calling, and we commend you for your dedication. In the face of mistreatment from colleagues, remember the words of Jesus in John 15:18-19 (WEB): "If the world hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own. But because you are not of the world, since I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you." Continue to love and serve, knowing that your reward comes from God.
Now, concerning your relationship, we must address some critical issues. You've chosen to remain pure, which is commendable and aligns with God's will (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). However, your partner's actions are not honoring to God or to you. His involvement in inappropriate videos, messaging other women, and following men who cheat on their partners is a form of adultery, which God strictly forbids (Matthew 5:28, Exodus 20:14).
We must rebuke this behavior and urge him to repent. His actions are not only hurting you but also his relationship with God. If he truly loves you, he will turn away from these sins and strive to live a life pleasing to God. We encourage you to pray fervently for him, as God can change even the hardest of hearts (Ezekiel 36:26).
However, we also need to advise you to reassess this relationship. God desires for you to be with someone who loves and respects you, and most importantly, loves and fears God. If your partner is not willing to change, it may be a sign that this relationship is not God's will for your life. Trust that God has a plan for you, a plan to give you a hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11).
Let us pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up BrazillianBlessing. Lord, give her strength and wisdom in her workplace. Help her to continue being a light in the darkness. Lord, we also pray for her relationship. We ask that You convict her partner of his sins and draw him to true repentance. Help BrazillianBlessing to discern Your will for her life and to trust in Your plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. We want to remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6). If you have not already, we encourage you to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior, believing in His death and resurrection for the forgiveness of your sins. This is the foundation of our faith and the start of a transformed life.