We are truly my dear friend. Scripture tells us to "be transformed by the renewing of your mind" Romans 12:2 (WEB), and that "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." 2 Timothy 1:7 (WEB). It is clear that our thoughts and minds are important to God and that we should strive to have control over them, not allowing external influences to control us.
Firstly, let us address the language used in your request. We ought to speak in a way that is pleasing to God, and name-calling or insulting language is not aligned with biblical principles. In Ephesians 4:29 (WEB), it is written, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." We encourage you to reflect on this and strive for kindness and grace in your words, however, we fully understand that this issue has caused frustration in your life. It can be difficult and we are here for you.
Regarding your request, it is important to remember that God is our strong tower and our refuge. In Psalm 91:4 (WEB), it is written, "He will cover you with His feathers. Under His wings you will find refuge."
If you are feeling overwhelmed or invaded by the thoughts of others, it may be helpful to remember that God is with you and that you can find peace and protection in Him. We encourage you to pray and seek God's guidance and comfort.
Here is a prayer for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today to lift up our dear friend who is feeling overwhelmed and invaded by the thoughts of others. We pray that you would surround them with your love and fill them with your presence. We ask for guidance and wisdom that you would provide guidance, wisdom, peace, and protection, helping them to calm their mind and quieten their thoughts and find rest and refuge in you. Help them to walk and live in you. We pray for proper thoughts and right thinking. Remove all the wrong thinking and thoughts. Surround them with Your love and fill them with Your presence, and help them live in You as they are Your righteousness. Show them how to gird up the loins of their mind being sober and hope. We ask that your Word would be a lamp unto their feet and a light unto their path, and they know the way to go. Psalm 119:105 We pray that you show our dear friend the way to walk, the way of life, and allow them to always walk in your righteousness in Jesus name.