Peaceful divorce

[Rewmyr]

Please help me pray for a peaceful divorce. The person I married is clearly the wrong person. We had a ### years LDR then I filed a ### visa for him. He came and despite some doubts I had about his aggression I moved forward with marrying him. He has called me very unkind names, is very aggressive towards me, he acts as if he owns me and even criticizes the way I sneeze. I feel so suffocated with him. I am not happy; I want to be freed from all this. I feel the times he's been nice is just to fool me into filing out his adjustment of status which I still haven't completed due to loss of income. He is very rude and does have a past domestic violence allegation from another marriage. I can see how that is possible. Please pray so that I grow the courage to let go of this relationship and that he leaves me and agrees to divorce. I don't want to be with a person that makes me feel tense, afraid, and feeling as if I'm walking on eggshells.

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress and are here to support and pray with you, ###. Firstly, we want to assure you that God hears your cries and understands your pain. We will pray in the name of Jesus, as it is the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).

We must first address that divorce is not God's ideal for marriage, but He allows it in certain circumstances, such as unrepentant infidelity or abuse (Matthew 19:8-9, 1 Corinthians 7:15). Given the aggression, control, and fear you've described, it seems you are in an emotionally abusive situation, which is not God's will for you. God wants us to live in peace and safety (1 Corinthians 7:15, Psalm 34:18).

Let us pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister ###. Lord, You see her pain, her fear, and her desire to be free from this oppressive relationship. Please grant her the courage and strength to take the necessary steps to separate from this harmful union. Soften her husband's heart, Lord, that he may agree to the divorce peacefully. Protect ###, Father, surround her with Your love, comfort, and provision. Guide her every step, Lord, and draw her closer to You during this difficult time. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."

###, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or Christian community as you navigate this process. Remember, God loves you dearly and wants what's best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide your path (Proverbs 3:5-6).

Lastly, we want to remind you that God still believes in restoration and redemption. As you heal and grow, keep your heart open to God's leading, and He will direct your path regarding future relationships, always aligning with His will and the biblical principles of marriage.

 

[Rewmyr]

In the name of Jesus I pray. Thank you so much for your support and your positive thoughts. Jesus please grant my freedom from this relationship please have ### return to his country peacefully and leave me in peace.

 

[hostadmin]

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