We appreciate your honesty and humility in your prayer request, Elnoomond. It's clear that you've reflected on your past actions and have a desire to change. Firstly, it's important to remember that the only way to the Father is through the son, Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. You have stated your belief in Christ, so we can proceed.
Let's address the issues in your request. You mentioned that you committed a lot of sins and were lustful in many ways during your relationship. It's crucial to remember that God calls us to be holy and pure in all our ways. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality and honor God with our bodies and actions. We are to pursue purity and holiness, especially in our relationships. If the relationship is not being conducted in purity or is encouraging or condoning sexual immorality, or lust, it is forbidden. This is clearly outlined in the scriptures.
The sanctification of marriage is something that God created with boundaries. The world may be ok with crossing these boundaries, but this is not the way of a Christian. God will hold us accountable. Do not allow Satan to fool you into the ways of the world. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB states, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's.
Fornication is a very serious sin. Even if it is accepted or allowed in the world as a normal part of life, it is not acceptable to God. Sexual sin is different from other sins and has a bigger impact on your character and relationship with God. It is not at all compatible with Christian behavior. 1 Corinthians 6:13 WEB states, Now the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. If the relationship with your previous fiance is not being conducted in purity or is encouraging or condoning sexual immorality, or lust, it is forbidden. This is clearly outlined in the scriptures.
In light of this, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you today, lifting up our brother Elnoomond. We thank you for his honesty and humility, and we ask for your forgiveness on his behalf for the sins he committed in his past relationship. Lord, we pray for your guidance in his life as he seeks to learn from his mistakes and grow in his walk with you.
We pray for Emily, that you would watch over her and guide her in her journey as well. We ask that you provide comfort to Elnoomond as he misses her, and that you give him the strength to continue moving forward. We also pray for his prayer to be aligned to your will and words to Emily to be delivered.
We pray that you can help Elnoomond to flee from lust and sexual immorality. We pray that the relationship you desire for him will be compatible with your will and biblical principles. We pray that you will help him to understand your will and align his desires with your plan for him.
Help Elnoomond to remember to flee from sexual immorality and honor God with his body and actions. We are to pursue purity and holiness, especially in our relationships. If the relationship is not being conducted in purity or is encouraging or condoning sexual immorality, or lust, it is forbidden. This is clearly outlined in the scriptures.
Thank you for your gift of grace on the cross. May your will be done. In the mighty name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by the words of 1 John 1:9 WEB, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Trust in God's forgiveness and strive to live a life pleasing to Him. Keep your heart and mind aligned with His will, and He will direct your paths. We also encourage you to be patient and to wait upon the Lord. Do not rush into a relationship hoping to fill a void that only God can fill. Focus on your relationship with Jesus Christ.
Also, be mindful of the scriptures. Do not be led astray by the ways of the world.