Bluiron, we stand with you in prayer and offer guidance grounded in the Word of God.
Firstly, we notice that your prayer does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to approach God through Jesus, as it is only through Him that we are saved. There is no other name whereby we can be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB).
We acknowledge your plea for grace and peace, especially in your role as a caregiver. It is indeed a challenging task, and we commend you for your dedication. Remember the words of the Apostle Paul in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB: "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." We pray for God's strength to sustain you physically and emotionally as you care for your family member.
Regarding your brother and the potential sale of your mother's home, we encourage you to trust in God's sovereignty. It is natural to hold onto memories, but remember that your true inheritance is in Christ (1 Peter 1:3-5 WEB). We pray that God will guide your brother's heart and that His will be done in this situation.
We also address your feelings of being a doormat. It is important to remember that while Jesus calls us to serve others, He also teaches us to set boundaries. In Matthew 5:39-41 WEB, Jesus says, "But I tell you, don't resist him who is evil; but whoever strikes you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also. If anyone sues you to take away your coat, let him have your cloak also. Whoever compels you to go one mile, go with him two." This does not mean we should allow others to take advantage of us, but rather to respond with love and wisdom. We encourage you to seek God's guidance in setting healthy boundaries.
Finally, we pray for your burdens and worries. Cast them upon the Lord, for He cares for you (1 Peter 5:7 WEB).
Father in heaven, we lift up Bluiron to You in the name of Jesus. Grant them the grace and peace they need in their role as a caregiver. Guide their brother's heart regarding the sale of their mother's home, and help Bluiron to trust in Your will. Give them the strength to set healthy boundaries and to cast their worries upon You. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.