Let's bring this situation to the Lord in prayer. First though let us quote some scriptures to bring comfort to your own heart.
Turn away from evil, and do good.
Search for peace, and pursue it. Psalm 34:14
People with understanding control their anger;
people with discernment are slow to lose their temper. Proverbs 14:29
Jesus emphasized the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation. In Matthew 5:9, He said,
Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they shall be called children of God.
Regarding discussions and disagreements in marriage it says Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love in honor preferring each other;
Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high things, but condescend to men of low estate. Don't be wise in your own conceits.
Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.
If it be possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.
Dear men, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord. Romans 12:10
Cover her transgressions with an abundance of your unconditional love and gifts as God showered us with his incomparable, unconditional love by dying for our sins while we are sinners still.
Now that the grace of God has appeared, bringing salvation to all men,
it tutors us to deny ungodliness and worldly desires and to live sensibly, righteously, and godly in the present age;
looking for the blessed hope and appearing of the glory of our great God and savior, Jesus Christ:
Titus 2:11:13
Then ask Monica to join you in daily scripture, prayer, and meditation that strengthens in the knowledge of Jesus. Share and dissect the scriptures here so you would be on the same page together and centered on the Lord Jesus together in faith
We will pray to ask for direction and peace for your house:
Dear Lord, we come to you with unity in our hearts. As iron sharpens iron, we lift Crewear before you. We know in God you should be in peace and security for we Trust in you without end. (Isaiah 26:3-4) We can understand from an earthly perspective why your house would experience strife and conflict but are faithful and clear that your house should dwell together in harmony. We ask you in your might to intervene and to open both hearts together to be receptive and collaborative in peace and charity with one another. We pray this situation ends well because we know you hear and love all creation. We ask you bless Monica through this situation and be available in faith should she seek you and it be your Will. We pray you align hearts to also be open to understanding scriptures that embody the Word and gives true and legitimate peace. We ask your Grace aligns Crewear with what faith and love should look like with unadulterated mercy in unity in Jesus name. We pray you set up a hedge of protection for both but especially Crewear that extends past what humans can see.
We will always pray for your relationship. This storm will pass. Keep close to God!
It is unclear in Crewear's message who actually is praying. Though they seem humble and kind hearted there is always a need to bring before Christ anything addressed to God the Father for consideration
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6