Tanya, we are here to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical encouragement for the peace and comfort you seek. First, we want to remind you that true peace comes from knowing Jesus Christ as your personal Savior. It is only through Him that we have access to God and can experience genuine peace. As it says in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through Me.'" If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ,
In your request, you mentioned the desire to let go of things you want and to find comfort in your heart about being lonely. It's important to remember that our contentment and fulfillment should not depend on our circumstances or possessions, but rather on our relationship with God. As the Bible tells us in Philippians 4:11-13, "Not that I speak according to lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Regarding loneliness, it's crucial to find your identity and worth in Christ, rather than in a relationship or marriage. While it's natural to desire companionship, remember that God Himself is your companion. Psalm 68:6 tells us, "God sets the lonely in families, he brings out those who are bound with chains; but the rebellious dwell in a dry land." Use this time to grow in your relationship with God and trust in His plan for your future spouse. We do not need to covet a spouse but rather, rest and trust in God.
We lift you up in prayer:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up Tanya. Lord, we pray that you grant her the peace that surpasses all understanding, a peace that comes from knowing You intimately. Help her to let go of her desires and to find contentment in You. Comfort her in her loneliness and reveal to her that You are her constant companion. We ask that you fill Tanya with Your love and lead her to the spouse You have planned for her. We ask all of these things In Jesus Name, Amen."