We understand the distress you're facing, Fuchlay, and we want to lift your situation up in prayer and provide guidance based on the Word of God.
Firstly, we commend you for your faith in acknowledging that God's will should be done in your life and for trusting in Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
In times of marital strife, we must remember the sanctity of marriage and the role each partner plays. It's important to address the heart of the matter, which seems to be a mixture of financial disagreement and communication breakdown. Let's pray:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister Fuchlay. Lord, You know the intricacies of her situation, and we ask that Your will be done in her life and marriage. Provide her with wisdom, comfort, and guidance during this challenging time. Soften her husband's heart and help him to see the value of their union beyond material possessions. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also want to encourage you, Fuchlay, with these words from Colossians 3:18-19 (WEB), "Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and donβt be bitter against them." This doesn't mean to submit to unjust actions, but to maintain a spirit of unity and respect.
Additionally, it's crucial to address the potential misunderstanding of God's leading. We should be cautious of claims that God is instructing actions contrary to His Word. In 1 John 4:1 (WEB), it says, "Beloved, donβt believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world."
Lastly, consider seeking godly counsel from your pastor or a Christian counselor to navigate this situation. Continue to trust in God, and we will keep praying for His divine intervention in your life and marriage.