Peace in my home.

[Khugowe]

Please pray for peace in my home. My wife is constantly cursing at me and treating me badly. She is cursing at me all day and she doesn’t clean or help me. She doesn’t want to do laundry and she doesn’t like me touching it so the apartment smells. This is painful and I need prayer, she has severe OCD too and she wants it to control our lives.. any inconvenience or change in environment sends her off the rails. I am trying to get her therapy but she keeps quitting.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing in your home and marriage. God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual submission, as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB:

"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. 'For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh.' This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly. Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."

It is clear that your wife’s behavior is causing significant distress and does not align with biblical principles of love and respect. First, we want to address the issue that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name), then make sure to discuss this issue. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.

Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

We encourage you to seek God's intervention in this situation and to pray fervently for your wife's healing and restoration. It is important to approach this situation with love and understanding, recognizing that her behavior may be a manifestation of her struggle with OCD.

Firstly, address the cleaning and laundry:

Proverbs 31:27 WEB: "She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness."

Galatians 6:5 WEB: "For each man will bear his own burden."

Next, to address her cursing and treating you badly:

1 Peter 3:1 WEB: "In the same way, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word."

Ephesians 4:29 WEB: "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."

Her OCD is a valid issue and requires professional intervention. Continue to encourage her to seek therapy and consider involving a pastor or spiritual leader for additional support.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 WEB: "Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's."

Please join us in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage and home to Your throne of grace. Lord, we pray for healing and restoration in this marriage. We pray that You would soften the hearts of both and bring peace and understanding. We pray that You will help her continue with therapy. We also pray that her cursing will stop, and she will seek to glorify you in her home and marriage. We also pray that if they are both believers in Jesus that she will allow him to lead the household and she will help to clean and help in the household. May they both bear their own burden and remember that they were bought with a price, the blood of Jesus. Please help both of them come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ, your son. We rebuke the demonic spirits causing this destruction in Jesus Name. We pray for true repentance from anything that is not Godly in Jesus Name. Amen.

Seek God's guidance through prayer and the Word, and consider seeking counseling from a pastor or Christian counselor to help navigate this challenging situation.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, friend. It's heartbreaking to hear about the struggles you're facing at home. We've been praying for you and your wife, asking God to bring peace and healing into your home. We know that God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and unity, and we're trusting Him to work in your situation.

We've been reminded of Colossians 3:19, "Husbands, love your wives and never treat them harshly." Let's keep encouraging each other to love as Christ loved us, even in the midst of challenges. We're here to support you in prayer and love, just as we're called to do in Hebrews 10:24-25.

Keep persevering, and remember that God is always with you. We're believing for a breakthrough in your home, and we'll keep praying for peace, understanding, and healing. You're not alone in this, and we're here to stand with you. Keep trusting in God's faithful love, and let's continue to lift each other up in prayer.

 

[Dweryall]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Khugowe]

We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing in your home and marriage. God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual submission, as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB:

"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. 'For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh.' This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly. Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."

It is clear that your wife’s behavior is causing significant distress and does not align with biblical principles of love and respect. First, we want to address the issue that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name), then make sure to discuss this issue. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.

Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

We encourage you to seek God's intervention in this situation and to pray fervently for your wife's healing and restoration. It is important to approach this situation with love and understanding, recognizing that her behavior may be a manifestation of her struggle with OCD.

Firstly, address the cleaning and laundry:

Proverbs 31:27 WEB: "She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness."

Galatians 6:5 WEB: "For each man will bear his own burden."

Next, to address her cursing and treating you badly:

1 Peter 3:1 WEB: "In the same way, you wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word."

Ephesians 4:29 WEB: "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."

Her OCD is a valid issue and requires professional intervention. Continue to encourage her to seek therapy and consider involving a pastor or spiritual leader for additional support.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 WEB: "Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's."

Please join us in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage and home to Your throne of grace. Lord, we pray for healing and restoration in this marriage. We pray that You would soften the hearts of both and bring peace and understanding. We pray that You will help her continue with therapy. We also pray that her cursing will stop, and she will seek to glorify you in her home and marriage. We also pray that if they are both believers in Jesus that she will allow him to lead the household and she will help to clean and help in the household. May they both bear their own burden and remember that they were bought with a price, the blood of Jesus. Please help both of them come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ, your son. We rebuke the demonic spirits causing this destruction in Jesus Name. We pray for true repentance from anything that is not Godly in Jesus Name. Amen.

Seek God's guidance through prayer and the Word, and consider seeking counseling from a pastor or Christian counselor to help navigate this challenging situation.

Don’t worry I am saved, I appreciate your concern. Thank you for praying.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you
and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you
and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you his favor
and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We are truly grateful that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray for peace in your home. We continue to stand in agreement with you, believing that God is at work in your situation.

If you have seen improvements in your home and your wife's behavior, we would love to hear about it. Your praise report will encourage us all and give glory to God. If the situation is still challenging, please don't hesitate to post an update. We are here to continue praying with you and supporting you through this trial.

Remember, God cares deeply for you and your wife. He desires for both of you to live in peace and experience His love. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep praying. We are believing with you for a breakthrough. We pray that God would open her heart to receive the help she needs to deal with her OCD.

We pray God's will in Jesus Name.