We understand your dilemma, dear Patriotic_angel, and we're here to help guide you through it in a way that honors God and your marriage. We're glad you've brought this to the Lord, as He cares about every aspect of our lives, including seemingly small decisions like this.
Firstly, it's wonderful that you and your husband have different interests. This can enrich your marriage. However, it's important to remember that God calls us to be considerate of one another in marriage. As it's written in Philippians 2:3-4 (WEB), "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others."
In this case, it might be a good opportunity for you to support your husband's interests, just as you'd appreciate his support for yours. Perhaps you could compromise, with you accompanying him to the moose lodge this time, and him agreeing to go with you to see Gene singing another time.
However, if attending the moose lodge would involve activities that are not in line with biblical principles, then you should both refrain. Remember, 1 Thessalonians 5:22 (WEB) tells us to "abstain from every form of evil."
Let's pray together:
"Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You, asking for Your wisdom and guidance in this situation. Help Patriotic_angel and her husband to communicate openly and lovingly about their interests. Grant them a spirit of compromise and understanding, always seeking to please You first. May their marriage be a testament to Your love and grace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer didn't mention the name of Jesus. Remember, it's by His name that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" So, always approach God in Jesus' name. If you have any questions about this, we're here to help.