We are truly sorry to hear about your situation, Pastor. We appreciate your unwavering faith in Christ Jesus. It is only by his name that we are saved. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical encouragement.
Firstly, we acknowledge your faith and strength in the face of adversity. It is inspiring to see a shepherd looking for his flock rather than leaving him in the storm. Loss of shelter is only temporary and it was only in 2 Corinthians 5:1 WEB we are reminded "For we know that if our earthly house of this tabernacle were dissolved, we have a building of God, an house not made with hands, eternal in the heavens." We take comfort knowing God is with us in trials and suffering (Isaiah 43:2).
Let us address some other things mentioned. You stated you were displaced by hurricane Milton. We should think about this and how Jesus calmed the storm in Matthew 8:23-27. Here Jesus Christ called for the wind and storm to calm, and it did. Your storm should soon calm. It is difficult to replace this faith with something else when it comes from the power of Jesus.
To seek deliverance is honorable and desired, but we remember the words of Peter. 2 Peter 2:9 WEB says "The Lord knows how to deliver the godly out of temptations". God is able to give you what you need and the deliverance you ask. This deliverance may take many forms from financial, physical, mental, and situational. We know that there is a Matthew 6:26 WEB to save you from your worries as well, reminding us "See the birds of the sky, that they don't sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you of much more value than they?".
But you have requested more than deliverance. Placement with a "life partner from heaven" is mentioned but we should refer to someone to marry, and not just a partner or life partner. Rather than looking for any partner, we know that the Bible very clearly states that someone who is a husband or wife is no longer their own, but they are the Lord's. 1 Corinthians 7:29-31 WEB speaks to us directly and says "But this I say, brethren, the time is short, so that from now on even those who have wives should be as though they had none; and those who weep, as though they did not weep; and those who rejoice, as though they did not rejoice; and those who buy, as though they did not possess; and those who use this world, as not abusing it: for the appearance of this world passes away".
Truly we are supposed to set ourselves apart from the worldly desires. Focusing on God's view of relationships instead of our own. Again, "Jesus answered, 'You are mistaken, not knowing the Scriptures, nor the power of God. For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are like God's angels in heaven." in Matthew 22:29-30 WEB makes it clear as well. We should work to retrain our minds to focus on God. Nowhere in the Bible are we called to be in a relationship as a boyfriend and girlfriend, but rather seek a marriage commitment with another Christian. But this also begs the question of the form of a family and a spouse. Nowhere in the Bible does it mention seeking a relationship partner outside of marriage. Again, let's refer to the scriptures. God outlines his views on what a relationship in his eyes looks like and how a couple should live in 1 Corinthians 7:2. "Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband" WEB. Please, if you are speaking of your situation in the sense of just a "relationship" and not that of marriage in the eyes of God we should all call this sin and remind ourselves of the call from 1 Corinthians 7:18 WEB, "Was anyone called having been circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised." This can relate to all of us. We cannot just be called or feel like we have a relationship with Jesus, but we must have already made the permanent change to live our lives with and for Jesus. Remember that the only two choices are to believe in Jesus or you are denying him. (Matthew 10:33 WEB)
Let's reflect on this in our hearts and seek deliverance from our sinful tendencies as the need for a relationship from God comes as a spouse and not from a temporary friendship or partnership. We want to marry well, and the Bible mentions that marriage can be used as a Godly use as outlined in 1 Timothy 5:14 WEB: "So I counsel younger widows to marry, have children, manage the household, and give no occasion to the adversary for insult". But again, this cannot be our hearts' desire and only we can determine when we are ready for the commitment to move from being single to courting for a relationship with the intent of marrying and as an equal yoke for each other's burden. We mustn't ask why God is withholding marriage from us if we are not ready and in sin if we are asking for someone to satisfy the sinful desires of ourselves. Again 1 Corinthians 7:1 WEB tells us "Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman."
Looking for a job should be from seeking the will of God for your life as well. If you can work in an area that will allow you to expand on your ability to reach your congregation more, or help you teach others and take on the responsibility of supporting your marriage (if you are married and have the call to support a family or if God presents this to you in your life in the future) you should go for that in the will of God as well. Romans 12:2 WEB should remain at the forefront of our hearts at all times, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."
Let's stand together in prayer for this situation:
"Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come to lift up our brother in this time of adversity. We thank you, Lord, for your faithfulness and unfailing love (Psalm 36:5-7 WEB). We believe that this season of difficulty will soon pass, and like Job, our brother will be restored beyond his losses (Job 42:10-12 WEB).
Please strengthen his faith and encourage his heart during this challenging time. You are a miracle-working God, more than capable of providing a new home, a reliable vehicle, and a stable job for him (James 5:16-18 WEB). We believe in your ability to do exceedingly, abundantly above all we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20 WEB).
Grant him patience and discernment as he navigates this season. Guide him in seeking marriage only in your timing and lead him to a God-fearing woman who will love and support him in his ministry, if it be your will. Help him to seek Godly counsel and direction during this season, knowing that your plans are to prosper him and not to harm him (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). We submit our prayers to you and trust that the power of Jesus Christ over this storm just as in Matthew 8:27 WEB, "they marveled, saying, What kind of man is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him!".
May your peace which surpasses all understanding rest upon our dear brother and give him respite during these trying times. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus, we pray."