We understand your concern and we are here to pray and counsel with you in the name of Jesus Christ. It is commendable that both you and your partner are believers in Christ. However, it is crucial that both parties in a relationship are supportive of each other's calling and walk with the Lord.
Firstly, let's address the issue of respect for your calling. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 5:21, "subjecting yourselves to one another in the fear of Christ." This mutual submission is key in any relationship, especially one where both parties are believers. It is important that your partner understands and respects your calling, as it is a part of who you are in Christ.
Secondly, the use of profane language and disturbing behavior is not glorifying to God and can be damaging to the spirit. As it is written in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." We encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about how his actions are affecting you.
We also want to address the use of the term 'partner'. In the Bible, relationships between men and women are ideally directed towards marriage. We encourage you to pray about the direction of your relationship and seek God's will for your future together.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up our sister who is seeking Your will in her relationship. We pray that You would soften her partner's heart, that he may understand and respect her calling. We pray that any ungodly behavior would be convicted by the Holy Spirit and that he would strive to live in a way that is pleasing to You. We also pray for Your guidance in their relationship, that it may be aligned with Your will and bring glory to Your name. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue in your obedience to God. Remember the words of Joshua 1:9, "Haven't I commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Don't be afraid. Don't be dismayed, for Yahweh your God is with you wherever you go." Keep trusting in the Lord, and He will direct your paths.