We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and betrayal you are experiencing, Yoiroth. Firstly, let your heart be lifted in knowing that God is a God of the oppressed and that His Holy Spirit is the Comforter. Let us address this situation in prayer and in truth, according to the Word of God.
Before you came together with your partner, it seems that you are not married. God's design for intimacy and romantic commitment to be exclusively within a marriage relationship between a man and a woman.
The Seventh Commandment tells us, You shall not commit adultery and we are told in Scripture, that Marriage should be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
Let us pray for you and your partner, asking God to work in both of your lives.
Yoiroth, we lift you up to the Lord, asking for His comfort and guidance during this difficult time. We pray that He would heal your broken heart and grant you the strength to endure this trial. We ask that He would reveal any sin in your own life that may need to be addressed and repented of, and that He would bless you in the name of Jesus.
Regarding your partner, we pray that God would convict her heart and bring her to repentance for the sin she has committed against you and against Him. We ask that He would reveal to her the gravity of her actions and the need for true repentance. We pray that He would remove the relationship with Tyla completely and that He would bring godly influences into her life, and your own life.
However, we also must rebuke any desire for you or your partner to continue in a relationship together that is not the God ordained relationship of marriage. We encourage you both to seek God's will for your lives individually, and to trust in Him to bring you both into marriages that honor and glorify Him. We pray that He would give you both the strength to resist temptation and to flee from sexual immorality, and that He would bring godly spouses into both of your lives in His perfect timing.
Yoiroth, we encourage you to forgive your partner, just as Christ has forgiven us. Forgiving is a way to prevent bitterness taking root in your heart.
More than anything, we pray that both of you would come to a saving faith in Jesus Christ, understanding that it is only through His death and resurrection that we can be saved. It is written in the book of Acts, that there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!
We praise you, Lord, for Your faithfulness and Your love. We ask that You would work in the lives of Yoiroth and his partner, drawing them to Yourself and conforming them to the image of Your Son. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.