We understand your distress, Adjoah, and we're here to pray with you and guide you according to God's Word.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God knows your needs and desires, but His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). His will is perfect, and He knows what is best for you.
However, we must address a few things. The Bible teaches us to be equally yoked with fellow believers in Christ (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). It's crucial to ensure that the person you're considering for marriage is a Christian, as this unity in faith is essential for a God-honoring marriage.
Moreover, while the age difference may seem like a hindrance now, trust that God's timing is perfect. Do not despair, for God has a plan for you, a plan to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB).
We also notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ for salvation.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus. We lift up Adjoah to You, Lord. We ask that You comfort her heart and guide her steps. We pray that Your will be done in her life and that You would lead her to a godly spouse if it is Your will. We ask that You give her peace and patience to trust in Your timing. If this man is not Your will for her, we ask that You make it clear and help her to accept it. In all things, Lord, we ask that You be glorified. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Adjoah. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).