We are truly sorry to hear about the separation you're experiencing, Bolglex. We stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your marriage.
Firstly, let's remember what God says about marriage in Mark 10:9 (WEB), "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." God's desire is for marriages to be strong and united.
However, we must also acknowledge that both parties must be willing to work towards reconciliation. In 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (WEB), it says, "But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband; (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife."
While you stand for reconciliation, it's crucial to use this time for reflection and prayer. Seek God's guidance to understand if there are areas in your life that need change. Remember, 1 Peter 3:7 (WEB) urges, "You husbands, in the same way, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered."
Let's pray together:
"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up Bolglex and his wife Vivian to You. We ask for Your divine intervention in their marriage. Soften Vivian's heart and bring them back together if it is in Your will. Give Bolglex the strength and patience to endure this trial. In the meantime, help him grow in his relationship with You. Guide them both, Lord, and let Your will be done in their lives and marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
In this difficult time, continue to put your hope in the Lord. Seek His face and trust in Him. As Psalm 34:18 (WEB) promises, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
We noticed that your request doesn't mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it's through Jesus that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 (WEB) states, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" If you haven't already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as your personal Savior. He alone can bring true peace and hope.