Pain in my heart

Callum · Oct 2, 2024

Heavenly father I come before you right now with a heavy painful and burdened heart, you already now what's causing this lord and it's the love I still hold for Tia, I just don't what to do I've tried to let her go but it's not easy, I have regrets for what I did lord and I have come to terms with my sins and I thank you for forgiving me for what I did and I thank you for sending you only son to die on the cross for my sins, I want to reach out to Tia lord but I don't know if it's the right time to, so I ask if she could reach out to me one time, I know now lord how to treat her right and the pain that I caused her heart and how I broke her trust, I surrender our relationship to you lord and ask for love and guidance for us both and if it is you will for us to be guided together again, I can not shake the feeling I have for her and I cannot love another woman the way I love Tia my love for her is to strong please help us lord, lord I want to thank you for my amazing family and friends and colleagues who have been there with me through this difficult time and I thank you for being there with me and guiding me and helping me realise how I hurt her, I know this torment and pain that I am going through with be worth it at the outcome thank you lord in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

Articles · Oct 2, 2024

Callum, we come together with you in prayer, lifting up your heavy and burdened heart to our Heavenly Father. We thank you for acknowledging your past mistakes and seeking God's forgiveness, which is readily available through Jesus Christ (1 John 1:9, WEB).

Firstly, we want to remind you of the hope we have in Jesus Christ. As it is written in Romans 5:8 (WEB), "But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." It's beautiful to see you understand the magnitude of this sacrifice and we pray that you continue to find comfort and assurance in it.

About your feelings for Tia, we must remember that God's timing is perfect. We encourage you to wait upon the Lord and trust in His plan for you both. Psalm 37:7 (WEB) tells us, "Rest in Yahweh, and wait patiently for him..." We understand your desire to reach out to her, but we also advise that you seek God's will concerning this matter. It's crucial to ensure that your actions align with His purpose for you both.

We appreciate your intent to treat her right and acknowledge the pain you caused her. True love is patient, kind, and does not seek its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-7, WEB). We pray that God will guide you both and if it's His will, He will restore your relationship, making it stronger and more Christ-centered.

However, we must remind you that God's plan might not align with your current feelings. If that's the case, trust that He has something better in store for you. God's commandment is to love Him with all our heart, soul, and mind, and to love our neighbor as ourselves (Matthew 22:37-39, WEB). So, continue to pray for Tia, that God will heal her heart, guide her, and grant her peace.

We also thank God for your family, friends, and colleagues who have supported you during this difficult time. May God bless them abundantly.

**Let us pray:**

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our brother Callum. Lord, we thank you for his life and his heart that yearns for your will. We ask that you grant him peace, comfort, and guidance in this situation. Help him to trust in your timing and plan. If it's your will, Lord, we pray for restoration in his relationship with Tia, that you may guide them both and use their story to glorify your name. In Jesus' name, we believe and pray, Amen.

hostadmin · Oct 2, 2024

We're right here with you, Callum. We feel the weight on your heart, the love you still hold for Tia, and the regrets that tug at you. We want you to know that you're not alone in this. We're here, and so is our Heavenly Father, ready to comfort and guide you.

We've seen your heart, Callum, and we're proud of the steps you've taken to acknowledge your mistakes and seek forgiveness. That's a journey of growth, and it's one that God honors. Remember, He's always ready to forgive, just as He's always ready to love (1 John 1:9). That love is what's holding you up right now, even when it feels like you're carrying the world on your shoulders.

We understand your desire to reach out to Tia, to make things right. But let's pause and listen for God's voice in this. His timing is perfect, and His ways are not always our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). Maybe it's not the right time yet. Maybe there's a reason He's asking you to wait, to trust Him.

In the meantime, keep loving her, Callum. Love her as you would love yourself, with patience and kindness (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). Love her even when it's hard, even when you're hurting. That's what true love does. It doesn't seek its own way, but seeks the way of the beloved.

And remember, God's plan might not look like what you're hoping for. But it's always, always better. Trust that He knows what He's doing. Trust that He's working things out for your good, for Tia's good, for both of your good (Romans 8:28).

We're grateful for the people in your life who've stood by you, Callum. They're a gift, and we thank God for them.

So, let's pray. Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you today, carrying Callum's heart. Lord, we thank you for him, for his love, and for his willingness to trust in your plan. We ask that you grant him peace, comfort, and guidance. Help him to wait on you, to trust in your timing. If it's your will, Lord, we pray for restoration in his relationship with Tia. Help them both to trust in you, to follow your path. In Jesus' name, we believe and pray, Amen.

Jonathan B Hall · Oct 2, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

ellie12 · Oct 2, 2024

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

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Praying for this in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Oct 2, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Oct 8, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.