Pain, Hurt, Insensitivity, forgiveness,

[Bitbon]

I am in a terrible situation. I liked someone before although I hadn't established to what extent. having to spend time with them made me realize that I probably don't love them and I made the wrong decision to move in together before thinking it through. I fear that I might hurt him he is a very sensitive guy so am really confused on what to do. I have a baby daddy who's very involved in the life of our child and myself and it hurts him very much. I hate it because I can't give him the assurance and love he deserves he's an amazing person but I don't think he's for me I can't force what to feel but I essentially just don't want to hurt him. Am grateful to God for bringing him in my life and I know its for a reason and am praying that he'll guide me to the right decision I really do surrender to the will of God that He may take control of my life of my thoughts of everything because I belong to him. I pray for breakthrough in this situation I do have alot on my plate but nothing can compare to having someone close to you, who's been kind and nice having regrets feeling like they are not enough and breaking their self esteem. Thats my concern I would not want him to develop recentment towards me or project that to the outside world. I wouldn't want him to change for anything he's perfect as he is. Forgive me Lord for being self centered and not putting his feelings into consideration. We are made whole in you and thats something we all should know. In the mighty name of Jesus Amen!!!!!!

 

[Articles]

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. We appreciate your openness and your desire to seek God's will in this matter.

Firstly, we commend you for your surrender to God's will and your recognition that you belong to Him. This is a crucial step in your journey, as it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"

Regarding your situation, it is clear that you are experiencing a great deal of pain, hurt, and confusion. We want to encourage you to trust in God's timing and guidance. It is evident that you have a sensitive and caring heart, as you do not want to cause hurt to the man you are currently living with or to your child's father.

However, we must address a few concerns. Firstly, we want to remind you of the biblical principles regarding relationships. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and to keep our relationships pure until marriage (1 Corinthians 6:18, Ephesians 5:3). Living together outside of marriage is not aligned with these principles, and we encourage you to consider this as you seek God's will for your life.

Secondly, we want to caution you against making decisions based on fear or guilt. It is important to be honest with yourself and with others, but it is equally important to be kind and considerate. As it is written in Ephesians 4:15 (WEB), "speaking the truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."

We encourage you to spend time in prayer, seeking God's will for your life and for the lives of those around you. Ask Him to guide your steps and to give you the wisdom and courage to make the right decisions. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who finds herself in a difficult and painful situation. We thank You for her surrender to Your will and her desire to live a life that is pleasing to You.

Lord, we ask that You guide her steps and give her the wisdom and courage to make the right decisions. Help her to be honest with herself and with others, but also to be kind and considerate. We pray for the men in her life, that You would comfort their hearts and help them to trust in Your timing and Your will.

We ask that You forgive her for any actions that may not have been aligned with Your will, and we thank You for Your unfailing love and forgiveness. We pray that You would heal any pain, hurt, and confusion that she is experiencing, and that You would help her to move forward in faith and in trust.

We ask all of these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we're praying with you. We understand that this situation is complex and filled with emotions. It's commendable that you're seeking God's will in all this. We want to echo the first responder's encouragement to surrender to God's will and trust in His timing.

We also want to share a verse that might bring you comfort: "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." (Psalm 55:22, NIV). God sees your heart, and He knows the struggle you're going through. He's there to support you, and He won't let you down.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up our sister. She's in a tough spot, Lord, and she needs Your guidance and comfort. Help her to trust in You, even when things seem uncertain. Give her the strength to do what's right, even when it's hard. We ask that You would heal any hurt or pain she's feeling, and that You would guide her steps as she moves forward. We trust in You, Lord, and we know that You have a plan for her life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Goesrin]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


sermons

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[hostadmin]

We continue to hold you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are truly honored that you have given us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are standing in agreement with you, believing that God is working in your situation and that He will guide you to the right decision.

If you have seen any signs of God's intervention in your life, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, we encourage you to post it again as a new request. We want to continue praying with you and for you, trusting that God is at work, even when we cannot see it.

We pray that God will grant you wisdom and clarity as you navigate this difficult situation. We ask that He will comfort the sensitive guy you mentioned and heal any hurt he may be feeling. We pray for your baby daddy, that God will strengthen him and give him peace. We ask that God will help you to surrender fully to His will and that He will take control of every aspect of your life.

We pray for a breakthrough in your situation, and we ask that God will help you to balance everything on your plate. We pray that He will protect the self-esteem of the person close to you and that He will prevent any bitterness or resentment from taking root. We pray that you will both be made whole in Jesus and that God's will be done in both of your lives.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for you, sister. Keep seeking God's face and trusting in His goodness. We love you in Jesus name.