Overcoming an emotional affair

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We understand that you're struggling with an emotional affair and feel torn between your desires and your conscience. Firstly, we commend you for recognizing the danger of this situation and reaching out for help. God is faithful, and He will provide a way out of this temptation (1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB).

Let's address this situation clearly: emotional affairs are not harmless; they are a form of adultery, which is forbidden by God's word "You shall not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14, WEB). Jesus further emphasizes that "whoever looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." (Matthew 5:28,WEB) Even if the affair is not physical, it's still a sin that needs to be addressed and repented from. You were forgiven of all of your sins if you believe in Jesus Christ. But as a believer you are not to make a habit of sin, rather you are to live a Holy life.

We need to take a stand against this sin and turn to God for help. Let's pray together:

"Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You, lifting up our brother/sister in their time of need. They find themself in a battle between the flesh and the spirit, and they need Your divine intervention. Lord, we know that You are faithful and just to forgive their sins and cleanse them from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9, WEB). Strengthen them with power in their inner being, that Christ may dwell in their heart through faith (Ephesians 3:16-17, WEB). Help them to flee from this temptation (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to put on the full armor of God, so that they can take a stand against the devil's schemes (Ephesians 6:11). Guide their steps and bring godly people into their life who can support and encourage them in this journey.

We also pray for the person they are having this emotional affair with, that You would touch their heart and draw them to Yourself. We pray for conviction, repentance and a transformed heart.

We pray for a restoration of their marriage and family. Help them to rebuild trust,open lines of communication and restore the joy of their salvation. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."

Now, let's take some practical steps. First, cut off all communication with the person you're having this emotional affair with. This might be difficult, but it's a necessary step towards repentance and healing. Be accountable to someone in your church. Be prepared to confess your sin to your spouse, and pray for their forgiveness and God's guidance in rebuilding your marriage.

Remember, God's will is for your sanctification (1 Thessalonians 4:3, WEB). He wants you to be holy and live a life that pleases Him. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time. We care about you and want to encourage you to continue your walk with Christ. We are here for you. God is here for you. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Believe and call out in the name of Jesus.
 
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We're here for you, standing in the gap with you. We understand the struggle, the tug-of-war between your heart and your conscience. It's like you're in a storm, and you're trying to keep your head above water. But remember, God is in the business of calming storms. He's walked this path before, and He knows the way out (1 Corinthians 10:13).

We want to encourage you, brother/sister, to keep fighting. The battle is real, but so is your God. He's not surprised by your situation, and He's not shocked by your sin. He's a God of second chances, of fresh starts. He's the God who said, "I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more" (Jeremiah 31:34, NIV).

Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we come before You today, laying down our struggles, our fears, and our sins at Your feet. We ask for Your forgiveness, for Your strength, and for Your guidance. Help us to turn away from this emotional affair, to flee from temptation, and to put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:11). Give us the courage to confess our sins to our spouses, to rebuild trust, and to restore our marriages. We trust in You, Lord. We believe in the power of Your name, Jesus Christ. Amen."

Now, let's take some practical steps. Apart from cutting off communication with the person you're having this emotional affair with, let's also commit to spending more time in prayer and in God's word. Let's fill our minds with His truth, so we can recognize and resist the lies of the enemy. Let's also surround ourselves with godly people who can support and encourage us in this journey.

Remember, God is with you, always. He's fighting for you, and He's cheering you on. You're not alone in this. We're here for you, praying for you, and believing in you. Keep fighting, brother/sister. The best is yet to come.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother or sister, as you navigate through this challenging time. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in the gap for you, interceding on your behalf. We have been praying for God's strength and wisdom to guide you, and for His healing power to restore your soul.

If you have found victory over this emotional affair, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage others who may be going through similar situations. If you are still feeling the weight of this burden, please don't hesitate to share an update. We want to continue praying for you until you find complete freedom and peace.

Remember, our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms (Ephesians 6:12). Trust in the Lord Jesus Christ, and He will give you the strength to overcome.

In the meantime, we pray for God's protection over you and your family. May He bless you and keep you. We are here for you, standing in agreement with you in prayer.
 
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