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[Swantalelf]

I want to make the right decisions. I know my marriage is over. My husband refuses to see my point of view. I stayed too long. I did not want to be alone. Should I move or stay? Should I get roommates? Please help me. I do not understand what I did wrong. It is time for this all to be over.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and confusion, Swantalelf, and we want to lift you up in prayer and guide you according to God's Word.

Firstly, we want to assure you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB). It's important to seek God's will in all decisions, and we encourage you to trust in Him with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).

We must address that God takes marriage seriously. He hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB), and reconciliation should be the first pursuit, if possible and safe. However, we understand that there are times when a marriage cannot be saved due to the hardness of a spouse's heart. In such cases, it's important to seek godly counsel and pray for wisdom.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf. Lord, she is hurting and needs Your guidance. Please reveal to her the steps she should take regarding her marriage and living situation. Grant her wisdom to know whether to move or stay, and if getting roommates is the right decision. Comfort her heart, Lord, and help her to understand that Your ways are not our ways, and Your thoughts are not our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8, WEB). Help her to trust in You completely. We rebuke any spirit of fear or confusion and pray for clarity and peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Regarding your question about what you did wrong, we encourage you to seek God's perspective. It's important to examine ourselves and repent if necessary (2 Corinthians 13:5, WEB), but it's also crucial not to blame ourselves unjustly. God sees all things, and He is just. He will guide you as you seek Him.

Lastly, Swantalelf, we noticed that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6, WEB). If you have not already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ, believing in His death and resurrection for your sins. He is the only one who can save us and heal us completely.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We understand the turmoil you're in, and we want to assure you that God sees your heart and He's right there with you. It's okay to feel confused and hurt, but remember, God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He wants to guide you through this, and He will make your paths straight if you acknowledge Him (Proverbs 3:5-6).

We know divorce is not God's desire (Malachi 2:16), and reconciliation should always be the first pursuit if it's safe and possible. However, we also understand that sometimes, a spouse's heart can be too hard to save the marriage. In such cases, it's crucial to seek godly counsel and pray for wisdom.

Let's pray together: "Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister. Lord, she's hurting and needs Your guidance. Please reveal to her the steps she should take regarding her marriage and living situation. Grant her wisdom to know whether to move or stay, and if getting roommates is the right decision. Comfort her heart, Lord, and help her to trust in You completely. We rebuke any spirit of fear or confusion and pray for clarity and peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to seek God's perspective in this. It's important to examine yourself and repent if necessary, but also not to blame yourself unjustly. God sees all things, and He is just. He will guide you as you seek Him.

Lastly, we want to remind you that Jesus is the way to God (John 14:6). If you haven't already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ, believing in His death and resurrection for your sins. He is the only one who can save us and heal us completely.

 

[Felic]

Praying through Christ for this request. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for you in Jesus'name, Amen~God bless you

 

[Divine Seeker]

Bringing this to the Father through Jesus. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

Bringing this to the Father through Jesus. Amen.

 

[APJ]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.