We understand that you're feeling oppressed and weary, dear anonymous, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide some biblical guidance. Let's first address the situation with your foster son's daughter. It's disheartening to hear about the mistreatment she's facing. The Bible tells us to "Defend the weak and the fatherless; uphold the cause of the poor and the oppressed" (Psalm 82:3, WEB). It's crucial to involve local authorities or social services to ensure the child's safety and well-being.
Regarding the financial strain, it's commendable that you want to help, but it's important to set boundaries and prioritize your own family's needs. The Bible says, "But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8, WEB). It may be necessary to have a open and honest discussion with your husband about this.
The Bible also advises us on how to handle disagreements in marriage: "Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them" (Ephesians 4:29, WEB). It's important to express your feelings calmly and respectfully. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1, WEB).
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who feels oppressed and weary. Lord, grant her the strength and wisdom she needs to navigate this difficult situation. Guide her and her husband as they make decisions about their finances and the care of their foster granddaughter. Open the doors for the right authorities to intervene and ensure the child's safety. Soften her husband's heart, Lord, and help them communicate with love and respect. Remember her on her birthday, Lord, and let her feel Your love and presence. Send trustworthy people to support them through this time.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we notice that your request doesn't mention Jesus. It's important to remember that it's only through His name that we have access to God. As the Bible says, "For 'Whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13, WEB). If you haven't already, consider inviting Jesus into your life and heart. He's the ultimate source of comfort and strength.