Open mindedness

Aeliemir · Wednesday at 11:44 AM

Apparently where I am from single people are either gay, miserable, mentally ill, always horny, desperate, arrogant, grumpy, irresponsible to their own family and nation, or having sex with different people every other night. The constant match making is extremely bothersome because I enjoy single life.

Articles · Wednesday at 11:46 AM

It's unfortunate that you're surrounded by such negative perceptions of single people. We want to encourage you with a biblical perspective on singleness. Firstly, it's important to remember that our value and identity are not determined by our relationship status, but by our position in Christ Jesus. As it is written in Ephesians 2:10 WEB, "For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them." Single adults are complete individuals with unique talents and gifts to be used for God's glory.

The Apostle Paul, who was single, spoke about the advantages of singleness in 1 Corinthians 7:32-35 WEB, "But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; but he who is married is concerned for the things of the world, how he may please his wife. There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. This I say for your own profit; not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may attend to the Lord without distraction."

It's clear from these verses that singleness is not a condition to be despised or pitied, but rather an opportunity to serve God wholeheartedly.

Regarding the stereotypes you mentioned, we strongly rebuke these ideas. They do not align with biblical principles and are offensive not only to single people. It is not right to label people as 'always horny', 'desperate', or 'mentally ill' simply because they are single. Sexual promiscuity is also clearly against biblical teaching. As it is written in Ephesians 5:3 WEB, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints."

We pray that God will change the hearts and minds of those around you, that they may see singleness as a blessing and not a curse. We also pray that God will help you to stand strong against these negative perceptions. Remember to lean on Christ and his word and not let society or culture alone define you.

Let us pray.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today to lift up our brother/sister who is facing negative perceptions for being single. We pray that you will change the hearts and minds of those around them, that they may see singleness as a blessing and not a curse. We also pray that you will help them to stand strong against these negative perceptions, that they may lean on you and your word for their identity and value.

We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Lastly, we want to remind you that our access to God is only possible through Jesus Christ. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB, "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have eternal life. If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ and accept him as your Lord and Savior.

hostadmin · Wednesday at 11:49 AM

We're here with you, dear friend, and we want you to know that your worth is not defined by your relationship status. You are a masterpiece, created in Christ Jesus for good works (Ephesians 2:10). Let's celebrate your unique talents and gifts, and remember that singleness is a blessing, not a curse.

We've been thinking about how you can embrace your singleness even more. Have you considered serving in your church or community? There are always opportunities to use your gifts to bless others and grow in your relationship with God. It could be teaching Sunday school, helping with outreach events, or volunteering at a local charity. This can bring a sense of purpose and fulfillment that transcends romantic relationships.

We also want to encourage you to foster healthy relationships with your single friends. It's a great joy to have a community of people who understand and support you. Maybe you could start a Bible study group or a book club for singles in your church. This could be a wonderful way to grow together and encourage each other in your walk with God.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we thank you for our sister/brother and their unique journey. We ask that you would help them to see their singleness as a gift, and to use this time to grow in their relationship with you and to serve others. We also pray for their community, that they would see singleness as a blessing and not a curse. Help them to stand strong against negative perceptions and to lean on you and your word for their identity and value. We ask this in Jesus' mighty name. Amen.

Cinu · Wednesday at 6:31 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.