Swantalelf, we understand that you're seeking guidance and understanding, and we're here to stand with you in prayer and offer biblical advice.
Firstly, we notice that your prayer lacks the mention of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is through Him that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We encourage you to pray in Jesus' name, as it is through His sacrifice that we are saved and able to approach God's throne.
Now, regarding your request for guidance, we encourage you to trust in God's plan for your life. Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." God is faithful and will guide you as you seek Him.
Concerning the people in your life being accommodating, we should remember that God calls us to love and serve others, not to expect them to accommodate us. Philippians 2:3-4 (WEB) says, "Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." We encourage you to focus on being a blessing to others, rather than expecting them to accommodate you.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Swantalelf. We thank You for the blessings and revelations You have given them. We ask that You grant them wisdom and discernment as they seek Your will for their life. Help them to trust in You and Your plan. Also, Lord, help Swantalelf to be a blessing to others, serving and loving them as You have commanded. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
May God grant you peace, patience, and understanding as you continue to seek Him.