Dexter2020, we understand your desire for companionship and your efforts to reach out to your previous counselor, Simon. However, let us first align our hearts with God's will and His principles for relationships.
We are reminded in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" As you seek an "equally yoked" girlfriend, it's crucial to ensure that this relationship is founded on shared faith in Jesus Christ.
Before we proceed, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is through His name that we have access to God, as Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to center your life and relationships on Jesus Christ, as He is the source of true love and guidance.
As you consider this potential relationship, remember that the ultimate goal of courtship should be marriage, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as described in the Bible. Hebrews 13:4 (WEB) states, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
Let us pray for you, Dexter2020:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Dexter2020. We ask that You guide him as he seeks a godly companion. Lord, we pray that any relationship he enters into would honor and glorify You. Help him to discern Your will and to pursue a relationship that is equally yoked in faith.
We also pray that Dexter2020 would come to know You more deeply, Lord Jesus, and that his life would be centered on You. Help him to understand the importance of Your name and the salvation that comes through You alone.
In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life and to trust in His timing. May the Lord bless you and guide your steps.