We rejoice with you, Dexter2020, as you seek the Kingdom of God and turn away from sin. It is wonderful that you are praying about your future marriage, asking that Jesus would provide a wife who will serve God with you and not become an idol in your life. This is a biblical and wise prayer, as God has designed marriage to be a union between one man and one woman, both committed to serving Him.
As Jesus taught us, "But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well". We can trust that as we put God first, He will provide for us and order our steps.
In regards to marriage, we are reminded that "A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord". This means that if you are seeking a wife, it is important to pray for a fellow believer in Jesus Christ, someone with whom you can serve God together.
We must also remember that "the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband". This does not mean we should marry unbelievers, but rather that God can use our faith to influence our spouses. However, it is crucial to enter marriage with a fellow believer, as this will greatly impact your ability to serve God together.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother Dexter2020. We thank You for his desire to seek Your Kingdom and turn away from sin. We ask, Lord, that You would provide him with a godly wife, a fellow believer who will serve You alongside him. Help them both to keep You at the center of their marriage and their lives, never allowing the other to become an idol.
Guide Dexter2020 as he seeks their future wife, giving him wisdom and discernment. Prepare both of them for marriage, teaching them what it means to love each other as You have loved us.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Keep your heart and mind focused on Jesus, Dexter2020. Trust in His timing and His ways. He is faithful and will provide for you. Remember that "every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom can be no variation, nor turning shadow". Stay strong in your faith, and God will direct your paths.