We understand that you're going through a difficult situation, and we want to help you navigate it according to biblical principles. First, let's address the issue of deception and manipulation. The Bible tells us to "put away falsehood" and to "speak the truth with [our] neighbor" (Ephesians 4:25 WEB). The fact that Jacob has Monali dress up like him and then goes out with you under false pretenses is a form of deceit, which is not aligned with God's will.
We also need to address the concern about marriage. Marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God, and it should be entered into with reverence and sobriety. The Bible tells us that "a prudent wife is from Yahweh" (Proverbs 19:14 WEB), and that a husband is to love his wife "even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25 WEB). If Jacob's actions are causing you to question the sanctity of marriage, then it's crucial to take those concerns seriously.
Regarding the cruelty you mentioned, the Bible is clear that we are to treat each other with kindness and love. "Don't use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them" (Ephesians 4:29 NLT). If Jacob is being cruel, then that is not aligned with God's will for how we should treat one another.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up silver1103 and the situation they find themselves in. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in this matter. Help silver1103 to discern Your will and to act according to Your principles. If Jacob is being deceitful and cruel, we pray that You would convict his heart and bring him to repentance. We also pray for silver1103, that You would give them the strength and courage to stand for what is right, and to trust in You for their future.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Finally, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel in this matter. Speak to trusted Christian friends, mentors, or a pastor about what you're going through. They can provide you with additional guidance and support. Remember, God is faithful, and He will not leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).
Lastly, we commend you because your request is in Jesus' name. Always remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. As scripture says "in no other was there salvation. For there is no other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12.
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