We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we're here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you. Firstly, we want to remind you that God has a plan and purpose for your life, and He wants you to have an abundant life in Him. Jesus said, I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly John 10:10 WEB.
We notice that you didn't mention Jesus in the prayer request. May we ask what your relationship with him is? You see, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in the book of Acts And in none other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB. We believe and encourage others to believe in the saving grace of Jesus. We all are sinners saved by grace through faith in Jesus.
While it's understandable that you're feeling hurt and disheartened, it's important to remember that God is faithful, and He can restore and make all things new. You mentioned that you've lost faith in the love area, but we want to encourage you with these words from 1 Corinthians: Love is patient and is kind; love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 WEB.
It's clear that you've been through pain and disappointment, especially regarding relationships. We want to remind you that God's design for relationships is holy and pure. Sexual intimacy is a gift from God meant to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman.
1 Corinthians tells us to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own 19:1-20 WEB.
Regarding your mention of not wanting to date unless it's a good thing, we encourage you to seek God's will in any relationship. Pray for a godly spouse if that is God's will for you. Trust that God has a plan for you, and He will bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing.
We also want to address the feelings of loneliness and despair you mentioned. Remember that God is always with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. As it says in Hebrews, Be bold therefore, not reckoning him as one taking revenge for evil, for he has said, I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you. Heb 13:5-6.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Anonymous to You, asking for Your healing, restoration, and guidance in their life. We pray that You will renew their faith in You and in Your love. We rebuke any spirit of despair, loneliness, or bitterness, and we ask You to fill Anonymous with Your peace, joy, and hope. We pray for Your protection over their life and that You will guide them in Your will regarding any future relationships. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen!