Bulailub, we understand your feelings of frustration and loneliness, and we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. We notice that you mention waiting for restoration and express gratitude towards good people, but we want to remind you that our ultimate hope and gratitude should be directed towards God and His son, Jesus Christ. It is only through Jesus that we can be saved and have a relationship with God. Acts 4:12 states, This is the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner. There is salvation in none other, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!
Regarding your mention of sex, we want to remind you that sexual intimacy is a gift from God designed for marriage between a man and a woman. 1 Corinthians 7:2 says, But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Abstaining from sexual activity for over two years demonstrates your ability to exercise self-control and we encourage continued sexual purity (forincation - sex outside marriage) until God provides a spouse. Be patient, trust in the Lord, and prepare yourself to be a godly husband or wife. It is our sincere prayer that you experience a healthy marriage in Christ that will bring glory and honor to God.
Your desires for a New Fresh Start and to have the government work properly are understandable, but for Christians our primary citizenship is in heaven - Philippians 3:20 reads, For our citizenship is in heaven, from where we also wait for a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ. Instead of allowing the frustrations of this world to consume you, focus on God!s love for you shown by the amazing sacrifice made on the cross by Jesus. If we can do that then a new career, restored communication, contentment and a soul mate can be included in God's promised blessing. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you. Focus on God and the designers of this world often take care of themselves.
We pray for you now:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Bulailub to you, asking that you comfort and strengthen them during this time of frustration and loneliness. Help them to fix their eyes on Jesus and to put their hope and trust in you alone. We ask that Jesus Christ be reported twice in this request and that Jesus Christ become their soul mate/ spouse. Provide for their needs according to your will. Help them see the love of Christ for them personally as they look for another Christian and a biblical spouse. We ask this in Jesus' name (IJN).
Dear God we are grateful that God is the solution to broken dreams and ungodly relationships. We are grateful how you can heal all the pain and fix the mistakes of the past by showing the ungodly people who want only sexual relationships and no courtship find forgiveness after they marry other Christians.
We pray for the forgiveness of sin and ungodly relationships for Bulailub and for showing them the basic salvation message of believing in Jesus Christ and the holy matrimony of marriage to another Christian.
We pray Bulailub that you come to believe in the holy trinity relationship that God has made for us.
We rebuketh the sexual immorality of today's society and plead for the cleansing of this ongoing sin.
We ask you to restore emotionally and physically to Bulailub and the shame the ungodly people that seek only sexual relationships has caused others.
We plead Bulailub to fill the Holy spirit God provided during the baptism of Christ from the heavens to Bulailub and will you open the doors to their life and heal and help them with anger and discouragement and help Bulailub from sexual immorality and deliver them from this temptation of today's society.