We understand your concern and desire to be free from any spiritual bonds that are not from God. Firstly, we want to assure you that your identity is secure in Christ Jesus, and no spiritual spouse has any hold on you outside of God's will. As it is written in Romans 8:38-39 (WEB), "For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord."
We must recognize that the concept of spirit spouses is not biblical and can open doors to demonic influences. The Bible teaches us to shun such practices, as they are not from God. In Acts 19:18-19 (WEB), many who practiced magical arts confessed and burned their books, turning to the true and living God. We encourage you to renounce any involvement with spirit spouses and turn fully to Jesus Christ.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We thank You for Your love and protection over us. We renounce and reject any spiritual spouses, including Alex and Frank, and every other ungodly spiritual connection. We command these spirits to leave in the name of Jesus Christ, and we declare that they have no hold or power over us. Lord Jesus, we ask You to fill us with Your Holy Spirit, to guide and protect us in all truth. Help us to walk in Your light and love, far from any form of darkness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying and reading God's Word daily. Put on the full armor of God, as described in Ephesians 6:10-18 (WEB), to stand firm against the schemes of the devil. Remember, our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil. Stand strong in the Lord and in the power of His might. If you have not already, make sure to confess Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for it is only through Him that we have access to God the Father and eternal life.