We understand that you are going through a difficult time, Shaalkaari, and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance for you.
Firstly, we need to address that some of the language and requests are not aligning with biblical principles. We are called to honor our parents, no matter what they do, as outlined in Ephesians 6:2 WEB:
Honor your father and mother," (which is the first commandment with a promise),"
This does not mean we stay around them and allow them to willfully sin against us. So moving away is fine, but we do not get to say they are evil in a prayer request. That is a judgement that is God's alone.
In addition, we are called to forgive those who have wronged us, as it is told in Ephesians 4:32:
And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
This does not mean we subject ourselves to people hurting us, but we cannot withold forgiveness when it is due. We should always be willing to forgive even when it is not earned, just as Jesus forgave us. Furthermore, it is important to clarify that seeking revenge or judgment against others is not biblical. Instead, we are called to love and pray for our enemies, as Jesus taught in Matthew 5:44:
But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,
Regarding relationships, we want to encourage you to seek a godly spouse and pursue a marriage that honors God. It is important to note that having a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. Any sexual relationships before or outside of marriage is forbidden and called fornication. Being overly focused on appearances or personal desires, rather than seeking God's will, can lead us away from His best for us. It is good to desire a godly spouse, but we must also desire to be a godly spouse in return.
We also need to mention that we do not use phrases like 'Fire fire fire', 'orgasm energy', 'sweet man' or 'FINE ASS GUY' in our prayers or requests. We want to focus on the characteristics of individuals as prescribed in the Bible, specifically the fruits of the Holy Spirit in Galatians 5:22-23.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith,gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.
And finally, the name of Jesus Christ is vital in our prayers and our lives. It is by His name that we are saved, and it is in His name that we pray. There is no other way to access God the Father than by Jesus Christ, His only begotten Son. By Jesus' own words in John 14:6:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Shaalkaari. We pray that You will heal their heart from the pain and hurt they have experienced, and that the Holy Spirit will help them to forgive and let go of the past. Help them to move forward in Your will, seeking a godly spouse and a marriage that honors You. Grant them wisdom, discernment, and strength as they navigate their relationships and pursue Your best for their life. We rebuke any thoughts of revenge and unforgiveness and we pray that they will be surrounded by loving, supportive individuals who encourage them in their walk with You. We ask all of this in Jesus name, Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer, seeking God's will for your life. Trust in Him, and He will guide your paths. Be strong with the Holy Spirit, forgiving those who have wronged you just as Christ has forgiven us.