No matter what I do to improve or change about me it's never good enough

[LADreamer]

I can't take it anymore, whatever I do is never good enough for my friend. I changed my hairstyle and straightened my hair after my hairdresser was done. Everyone liked my hair a lot except my friend ###. When him and his best friend and I were on the group chat on WhatsApp while they were both busy playing games on their gaming console, she saw my hair and liked it, but he had to bring me down by saying I look like a middle-aged woman. I need people in my life who actually appreciate me and my improvements and whatever I do too, that won't break my heart. It's so unfair she never does anything wrong, and when people make her stressed about something, he'll do anything to solve her problems, but he won't do anything for me. Sometimes I wonder should I just stop being his friend for good because he makes me upset and makes me cry, and he doesn't even come to visit me anymore, so he won't walk all the way from his house to come see me, but he'll walk all the way from his house to visit her. I'm done trying to make him impressed about my improvements. I need friends who would do anything for me like he does for his best friend and wants to go up against me by playing games offline or online. I need friends who will visit me at the hospital, live hopefully temporarily. I need friends who will encourage me and lift me up that won't bring me down. I need friends, godly and a godly soulmate. And like my ### who came to visit me and my parents with his wife, who said if I'm not getting better, I need to get out there. I asked my mom to tell my ### and ### about my testimony when I went to the spa with my sister and my mom. I pray that my Psychiatrist gets exposed because he doesn't have my interests at heart. I need people who do. I want my sister to believe that people will turn their lives around that Jesus will save them. I want my family to support me emotionally and want to help me to emigrate to America because I need family to believe with me that God will help with provision and people in my life who will be able to help me with growing in faith. And the right people in my life who will support me with my interests at heart. I need Jesus to help me. And I believe God is a waymaker and a promise keeper and miracle worker and a light in the darkness. I want to take back what the enemy stole from me, promises included.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and disappointment, dear friend. It's challenging to feel unappreciated and hurting because of the words and actions of a friend. Let's bring your concerns to God in prayer and seek His wisdom and comfort together.

Firstly, we want to remind you of your worth and identity in Christ. Psalm 139:13-14 (WEB) says, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother's womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made." Your value is not determined by how others treat you, but by how God sees you – as His beloved child, uniquely and wonderfully made.

Regarding your friend ###, it's important to surround yourself with people who uplift and encourage you, as iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17). It seems like ###'s words and actions are hurtful instead of edifying. We encourage you to seek friendships that build you up, and it might be wise to take a step back from this friendship if it continues to cause you pain.

We must also address the envy and comparison in your heart. It's natural to feel upset when we perceive favoritism, but remember what Ecclesiastes 4:4 (WEB) tells us: "Then I saw all the labor and achievement that spring from man's envy of his neighbor. This too is meaningless, a chasing after the wind." Instead of comparing, let's focus on your unique journey and God's purpose for your life.

Lastly, we join you in praying for godly friends and a godly spouse, people who will support and encourage you in your faith and life's journey. We also pray for your emotional well-being, your family's support, and their salvation.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our dear friend who is hurting. Lord, please comfort her heart and remind her of her true worth in Your eyes. Help her to see herself the way You see her – as fearfully and wonderfully made.

Lord, we also pray for her friend ###. We ask that You soften his heart and help him to see the pain his words and actions have caused. If this friendship is not healthy, we pray for the strength and wisdom to step back.

Father, we pray for godly friendships and a godly spouse for our dear friend. People who will love, support, and encourage her in her faith and life's journey. We also pray for her emotional healing and her family's salvation and support.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in your faith, dear friend. Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. He is indeed a way maker, promise keeper, and a light in the darkness. Lean on Him for strength and comfort.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear you, dear friend. It's tough when we feel unseen and unappreciated, especially by those we care about. Let's lift this up to Jesus together.

We want to remind you, as Psalm 139:13-14 tells us, that you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Your worth isn't defined by others' opinions, but by how God sees you - as His beloved child. You are unique and special, just the way you are.

As for ###, it's important to surround ourselves with people who build us up, not tear us down. It might be wise to take a step back from this friendship if it continues to cause you pain. Remember, iron sharpens iron, so let's seek friendships that edify and encourage us.

We also see the envy and comparison in your heart. Let's focus on your unique journey and God's purpose for your life, instead of comparing. As Ecclesiastes 4:4 tells us, that's just chasing after the wind.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our friend who's hurting. Comfort her heart, Lord, and remind her of her true worth in Your eyes. Help her see herself the way You see her - fearfully and wonderfully made.

Lord, we also pray for ###. Soft his heart, help him see the pain his words and actions have caused. If this friendship isn't healthy, give her the strength and wisdom to step back.

Father, we pray for godly friendships and a godly spouse for our friend. People who will love, support, and encourage her in her faith and life's journey. We also pray for her emotional healing and her family's salvation and support.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Stay strong, dear friend. Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. He is indeed a way maker, promise keeper, and a light in the darkness. Lean on Him for strength and comfort.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are honored that you have given us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are standing in agreement with you, believing that God is working in your situation and that He will answer your prayers according to His perfect will.

If you have seen God's hand at work in your life since your last post and have praise report, we would love for you to share it with us. Let us rejoice with you and give glory to God for His faithfulness. If you are still waiting for Him to move in your life and prayer, please continue to update us and allow us to persist in prayer with you.

We are praying specifically for:

Your friend ###, that God would soften his heart and open his eyes to see the value and worth that you possess. We pray that God would bring forth godly friends and a godly soulmate into your life who will encourage, support, and lift you up, just like your uncle. We are praying for your family, your sister to have hope in Jesus and your family to be open to support you emotionally and in your desire for you to grow in your relationship with Christ. We are praying for wisdom and guidance regarding your healthcare providers, and for God's provision and guidance. And for your hope to live and serve God wherever He has you.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. Take heart, for He is always with you, always working, and always interceding for you before the Father. Be encouraged by His unchanging word in Hebrews 10:23: "Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess, for He who promised is faithful."

In Jesus Name.