We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, it is crucial to understand that the path to restoration begins with repentance and confession. The Bible tells us, "He who conceals his sins doesn't prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy" (Proverbs 28:13 WEB).
Your actions have not only hurt your wife but also affected her spiritual walk. It is important to acknowledge that lies, financial deceit, and affairs are serious sins that need to be addressed openly. The Bible is clear about the sanctity of marriage and the importance of honesty and faithfulness. "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB).
It is essential to confess your sins to God and to your wife. True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking forgiveness. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).
Prayer:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and his marriage. Lord, we confess the sins of deceit, financial lies, and infidelity that have caused pain and separation in this marriage. We ask for your forgiveness and mercy. Give ### the strength and courage to confess his sins to his wife and to you, Lord. Help him to turn away from these sins and seek your will for his life. Restore their marriage, Lord, and draw them closer to you. Heal the heartache and pain that has been caused, and renew their love and commitment to each other. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). Trust in Him for forgiveness and restoration.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel, possibly from a pastor or Christian counselor, to help guide you through this process of confession, repentance, and restoration. Be assured that God's grace is sufficient for you, and He can restore what has been broken. "And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm, and steadfast" (1 Peter 5:10 WEB).
Take heart in knowing that God can use even the most difficult situations for His glory and your good. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time not in a relationship, but in a marriage.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
