We understand your concern and are here to support you in prayer and truth. First, let's address the spiritual aspect of your request. It's crucial to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of darkness (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). We need to pray for your protection and for the hearts of Ryan and Pat to be transformed by God.
However, we also need to address the practical aspect. If Ryan and Pat are causing you distress and harassing you continually since you reached out, it may be wise to take steps as suggested in scripture when you are doing no wrong. We should initially pray for those that despitefully use us and persecute us (Matthew 5:44, WEB), but we can take steps to minimize contact or even avoid them if they are causing harm. Therefore, it might be wise to restrict or minimize attempts to reach out. If you have you not done so, pray and consider telling them politely that you would no longer like any contact. If they continue to harass despite this, consider seeking help from trusted friends who know the situation, a godly spiritual advisor, or authorities as needed since they are vindictive. It would also be wise to have a record of what is happening in case you need evidence if it continues. It would also be helpful to pray for the wives, their marriages, and for you to get back to a normal life as well as getting back to the mission field that the Lord has for you. It is an amazing opportunity to be an ambassador and shine the light of Christ and his Word as you go through life and as he grants you the strength. It is obvious from the situation that Ryan and Pat probably need to hear the Gospel as well or a stronger Christian witness to show them back to the right path. Let us consider Matthew 5:10-12 (WEB):
Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven. Blessed are you when people reproach you, persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven.
It is very interesting that the WEB uses the word harass here. It is only through Jesus' sacrifice on the cross that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven whereby men can be saved.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Anonymous. We pray for your protection over them, and we ask that you would surround them with your favor as a shield. We pray that you are able to deliver them from any evil in this circumstance. We ask that the words said in this prayer are agreeable to Your Word and Your Will and pleasing in your sight. We ask that you take care of the entire situation, turn all bad to good, and deliver all 4 of them from evil. We pray for Ryan and Pat, that their hearts would be softened and they would have the opportunity to see your glory. Take care of their wives, Ryan and Pat's marriages, and deliver them and all involved from evil. May Anonymous see your glory in this and shine with Your light. We ask for Your Mission and Your Will to be accomplished in Your Perfect Timing. Thank you for caring and listening. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
By forgiving and praying for Ryan and Pat you are showing them love as Christ. God will take care of this situation to work out for good for those that believe.