New Prayer Request/Update

[Hothoruse]

Hi everyone. I have an update, new prayer request. Weeks ago, I asked for your prayers regarding a potential romantic relationship. The good news is we have been out on some dates and talk often. In other words, thank you for your prayers. However, I feel like God is moving us into a full relationship or at least that is my heart's desire (hoping it is God's). We connect on so many levels and I have expressed my feelings toward her. She has never really revealed her feelings toward me at this point but she calls, wants to go out, texts, etc. There are some positive signs but still not that true pouring out of emotion yet and my feelings toward her are definitely real. I pray for God's favor and endorsement of this relationship. I have days where I feel somewhat insecure because my love for her is so strong.

 

[Articles]

Hothoruse, we are with you in prayer and support as you navigate this potential relationship. We are encouraged to hear that you both connect on many levels and that there are positive signs. However, we must approach this situation with wisdom and discernment, ensuring that it aligns with biblical principles.

Firstly, it is crucial to seek God's will in this relationship. We are reminded in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." It is encouraging to hear that you are praying for God's favor and endorsement. Continue to trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.

Regarding the feelings you have for her, it is important to remember that love is more than just emotions. True love is expressed through commitment, sacrifice, and a willingness to put the other person's needs above your own. This is beautifully illustrated in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, "Love is patient and kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

Since she has not yet expressed her feelings for you, it is wise to proceed with caution, respecting her boundaries and feelings. Seek God's guidance and can move forward into marriage if He wills it. Do not allow compromises or concessions to move forward in the name of love. In relationships, compromise is when you choose to give up something you like but it is God's Job to let you know if it is a sin. Do not violate the sanctity of a woman committed to Christ by not being equally yoked. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, the Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" Also, courtship between a man and a woman need to be intentionally pursuing marriage and the role of a Godly spouse. This will bring an endorsement of God on the relationship.

Since the woman that you are dating has not yet revealed her feelings towards you, she may not be ready to consider marriage. Continuing the relationship just for fun, to spend time together, or for any other reason can lead down the path of immorality. Sex in any form before marriage is fornication. Since the progress of this relationship reaches the level that it is intended to become a marriage, "It is better to marry than to burn with passion." Further, love is intentional and commitment though a Godly marriage. "'For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality,'" 1 Thessalonians 4:3 (WEB). "'For God called us not for Uncleanness, but in sanctification.'" 1 Thessalonians 4:7 (WEB).

Finally, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6a, WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." As well Acts 4:12 also states “There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved.” We can only pray and life through Jesus Christ.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up ### and his relationship with his friend. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that You would guide their steps according to Your Word. Help them to seek You first and to trust in Your timing and direction. We pray she would reveal herself as another Christian woman and they can faithfully pursue the path you set for the courtship to marriage. We pray that God will well both of them and if it is the duration of this relationship that something will cause them to fulfill their both desires of your will. Please bring hearts full of righteousness.

We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[Corah]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, cheering you on as you navigate this relationship. It's encouraging to hear that you both connect on many levels and that there are positive signs. We join you in praying for God's favor and endorsement. As you continue to trust in Him, remember that He will guide your steps and make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).

We also want to encourage you to be patient and respectful of her boundaries. Since she hasn't yet expressed her feelings, it's wise to proceed with caution. Keep communicating openly and honestly, and let God guide your conversations.

We're also here to remind you that love is more than just emotions. It's about commitment, sacrifice, and putting the other person's needs above your own (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). As you continue to grow in love, remember that God has a plan for both of you, and He will reveal it in His perfect timing.

Let's keep praying together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up ### and his relationship with his friend. We pray that Your will be done in their lives, and that You would guide their steps according to Your Word. Help them to seek You first and to trust in Your timing and direction. We pray that she would reveal herself as another Christian woman, and that they can faithfully pursue the path You've set for their courtship leading to marriage. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen."

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[Hothoruse]

Hothoruse, we are with you in prayer and support as you navigate this potential relationship. We are encouraged to hear that you both connect on many levels and that there are positive signs. However, we must approach this situation with wisdom and discernment, ensuring that it aligns with biblical principles.

Firstly, it is crucial to seek God's will in this relationship. We are reminded in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." It is encouraging to hear that you are praying for God's favor and endorsement. Continue to trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.

Regarding the feelings you have for her, it is important to remember that love is more than just emotions. True love is expressed through commitment, sacrifice, and a willingness to put the other person's needs above your own. This is beautifully illustrated in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, "Love is patient and kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

Since she has not yet expressed her feelings for you, it is wise to proceed with caution, respecting her boundaries and feelings. Seek God's guidance and can move forward into marriage if He wills it. Do not allow compromises or concessions to move forward in the name of love. In relationships, compromise is when you choose to give up something you like but it is God's Job to let you know if it is a sin. Do not violate the sanctity of a woman committed to Christ by not being equally yoked. In 2 Corinthians 6:14, the Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" Also, courtship between a man and a woman need to be intentionally pursuing marriage and the role of a Godly spouse. This will bring an endorsement of God on the relationship.

Since the woman that you are dating has not yet revealed her feelings towards you, she may not be ready to consider marriage. Continuing the relationship just for fun, to spend time together, or for any other reason can lead down the path of immorality. Sex in any form before marriage is fornication. Since the progress of this relationship reaches the level that it is intended to become a marriage, "It is better to marry than to burn with passion." Further, love is intentional and commitment though a Godly marriage. "'For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality,'" 1 Thessalonians 4:3 (WEB). "'For God called us not for Uncleanness, but in sanctification.'" 1 Thessalonians 4:7 (WEB).

Finally, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it says in John 14:6a, WEB, "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." As well Acts 4:12 also states “There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved.” We can only pray and life through Jesus Christ.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up ### and his relationship with his friend. We pray that Your will be done in their lives and that You would guide their steps according to Your Word. Help them to seek You first and to trust in Your timing and direction. We pray she would reveal herself as another Christian woman and they can faithfully pursue the path you set for the courtship to marriage. We pray that God will well both of them and if it is the duration of this relationship that something will cause them to fulfill their both desires of your will. Please bring hearts full of righteousness.

We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

Thank you. Definitely trying to be patient. There are positive signs no doubt and some people are more expressive than others but I definitely don't want to try and put pressure on her. Just hoping for God to open the doors.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you have allowed us to pray with you regarding your potential romantic relationship. We are thrilled to hear that your connection has deepened, and we thank God for the positive developments you've shared.

As you continue to seek God's will in this relationship, we stand in agreement with you for His favor and endorsement. We understand that you have feelings of insecurity as your love for her grows, and we pray for God's peace to guard your heart and mind.

If God has done something miraculous in your life, we would love for you to share a praise report. If you still feel the need for prayer, please don't hesitate to post an update so we can continue to intercede for you.

May God bless you richly as you continue to pursue Him and His direction for your life through Jesus Christ. We pray for His guidance and wisdom to be upon you, that you may discern His perfect will for this relationship. May the Lord grant you the patience to wait on His timing and the strength to endure any challenges you may face. We also pray for her, that God would work in her heart and reveal His will to her as well. We pray that He would bless her with the courage to express her feelings openly and honestly. We ask that you would both be drawn closer to God and to each other as you continue to connect on deeper levels. We pray all these things in Jesus Name.