We understand that you're seeking a meaningful relationship that aligns with God's will. First, let's address the nature of relationships as outlined in the Bible. We are called to be equally yoked with fellow believers in Christ (2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"). This means that the core of the relationship should be a shared faith and commitment to God.
The God-given purpose in continuing the relationship with God and each other is to serve God together and not step into sexual immorality (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God"). This means sexual immorality cannot play apart in your pre-marital relationship and your marriage. Monogamous eternal love is what God seeks between Man and Woman. (Genesis 2:23-24, "The man said, 'This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh. She will be called 'woman,' because she was taken out of Man.' Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh.")
It's important to seek a spouse who is faithful, loving, and committed to God. Pray for a godly spouse who will cherish and respect you, and who will help you grow in your faith. (Proverbs 31:10-12, "Who can find a worthy woman? For her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband trusts in her. He shall have no lack of gain. She does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life.")
Regarding your mention of past relationships and difficulties, remember God's promise that He worked all things together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. God's calling involves a life of devotion and obedience to Him. God promises good to those that adhere to Him and something better that God knows. (Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.")
As for the "New boyfriend" and never mentioning Jesus Christ. We will discuss how we are saved and how we should pray. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved because there is no other sacrifice or death that paid the price for our sin. There is also no other way to repent and beg for forgiveness for the sins we commit against God. (Acts 4:11-12, "This Jesus is the stone that was considered worthless by you builders that has become the head of the corner. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!") Because Jesus is Lord and the only one to redeem us by the crucifixion, let us pray:
"Dear God, the Creator of all things and the one who upholds Scripture, let us pray the right way, in Jesus' name. Lord, grant the one who submitted this request the wisdom and discernment to seek a godly spouse who will honor and cherish them, aligning with your biblical principles. Let her find the right Man who can make her happy within holy authority and love in a marriage with monogamy. Heal her from past hurts and guide her towards a relationship that aligns with Your purpose and design. Help her turn every issue and strife to you first as her savior and then rest in the only vessel of Jesus Christ. IJN"