We are glad to hear that you are taking steps to turn your life around and seek God's will for your life. Let us first address the issues in your request and then move on to a heartfelt prayer and encouragement for you.
Firstly, we want to acknowledge your honesty about your struggles with lust, wrong choices, and the challenges in your relationships. It is important to remember that God calls us to be holy and pure, fleeing from sexual immorality as instructed in 1 Corinthians 6:18: "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Additionally, divorce is not God's intended plan, as Jesus taught in Matthew 19:6: "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate."
You have spoken about your current relationship facing rough patches. Allow us to remind you of the sanctity of marriage and God's plan for it. Avoid using the term partner and consider your current state as either a courtship or marriage itself. Also, be clear you are either married to a person or considering another Christian to be your spouse.
You have spoken your desire to grow and be a better person. We thank you for calling Jesus the Lord, but you did not specifically mention being in a relationship with Jesus Christ. May we gently remind you of Jesus' words in John 14:6: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." It is only by His name that we can be saved and access God. Make sure to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, believing in him, and thus be saved from sin.
It is commendable that you are seeking mentorship. Proverbs 27:17 says, "As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friend." We encourage you to find a strong, godly male mentor who can guide you in your walk with Christ.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Bernigan. We thank You for the work You have begun in his life and for his baptism. We pray Lord Jesus that Bernigan grows stronger with a personal relationship with You. Lord, we pray that You will help him to overcome his struggles with lust and wrong choices. We did not see a clear repentance, so we pray Holy Spirit that you bring true repentance in Bernigan's life for each and every sin committed until date.We pray that he will be humble in his courtship or marriage ensuring he respects the woman in question as a child of God. This is not the time to be a boyfriend but to learn to be a Godly husband if God wills for him to be married.
We pray that You will guide him to a strong, godly mentor who can help him grow in his faith and live a life that is pleasing to You. We pray that You will give him the strength to live an honest and meaningful life, being the best person he can be for You and for those around him.
Lord, Bernigan acknowledges knowing you and his baptism. We pray this means Bernigan has a personal relationship with You. We encourage you Bernigan to meditate on the scriptures, pray without ceasing, and love God with all your heart, soul, and mind acknowledging your total dependence on Jesus Christ.
In the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.