Shaalkaari, we understand that you have many desires and dreams, and we want to help you align them with God's will and biblical principles. We should always pray in Jesus' name, as it is the only way to access God and salvation.
Firstly, let's address the dreams you mentioned. Having a baby, whether through pregnancy or adoption, is a significant responsibility. It is wonderful that you are open to adoption, as it is a beautiful way to provide a home for a child in need and of course taking care of it. However, we must ensure that this is God's will for your life and that you are prepared for such a commitment. We pray that God will guide you in this area and provide the necessary resources and support if this is His plan for you.
Regarding the "hot guy" you mentioned, we want to remind you that relationships should be approached with godly principles in mind. Physical attraction is not a strong foundation for a lasting relationship. We encourage you to seek a godly spouse (a man if you are a woman), and pursue courtship with the goal of marriage. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" - 2 Corinthians 6:14
We also want to address the focus on physical appearance and material possessions. While it is natural to want to look and feel our best, we should not place too much emphasis on external beauty. Instead, we should cultivate the fruit of the Spirit and seek inner beauty. 1 Peter 3:3-4 reminds us, "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight."
We see your need for a safe place to live, a job to feel confident again, and healing from past hurts. We pray that God will provide for these needs according to His riches in glory.
We will pray for you for a car either in winning a lottery, but we must remember that gambling is not a reliable or godly way to acquire wealth. Instead, we pray that God will provide for your needs according to His will and in His timing. "But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." - Philippians 4:19
We see a strong need for you to be in control of your life and to be happy. We encourage you to submit your desires to God and trust in His plan for your life. True joy and happiness come from a right relationship with God, not from material possessions or physical appearance.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Shaalkaari. We pray that You will guide her in Your will for her life, especially regarding her desires for a child and a godly spouse. We pray for the people who have caused her pain may be forgiven for their actions. We ask that You provide for her needs, including a safe place to live, a job to feel confident again, and healing from past hurts. We pray that You will help her to cultivate inner beauty.
Help her to submit her desires to You and trust in Your plan for her life. We are so thankful for Shaalkaari and we know that You have a plan and purpose for her life. We ask all of this in Jesus' precious name. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God's Word, seeking His will for your life. Trust that He has a plan and purpose for you, and that He will provide for your needs according to His riches in glory. We are here to support you in prayer.