New Awakening

[Apeth]

Heavenly Father I come before you this morning seeking clarity on a friendship I feel should be a relationship. I currently have a female best friend whom i’m deeply in love with but we’ve connected on a level and have spoken to each other about our own relationships and people weve talked too over the last year which I feel is hindering her giving us a shot. I feel our relationship could be good for the both of us if you wrap your arms around me and specifically her giving her a insight on what we could possibly be I feel our bond getting stronger and our understanding of each other becoming something that could blossom into a beautiful connection of a life time, If you’d get her to understand at your will and grace of course that although we started off as friends and her views on wanting to stay friends that we could make this work out in the long run and become a successful couple in this world with time effort and patience. I trust in you and I will continue to do right by you as you lead me through life In Jesus Name, Amen

 

[Articles]

We appreciate your heartfelt request, Apeth, and we want to guide you according to God's Word and the biblical basis for true love and especially marriage.

It's commendable that you have a deep friendship with this supportive lady, however the way you describe it does not align with God's will for Christian romantic relationships. Therefore, what we know is that 'There is a way which seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death.' We will ask for your understanding and with your permission at this point, ask you both for forgiveness and to give up this relationship and seek a partner instead that can become a planned Jesus Centered marriage between a believer and a Christian virgin who wants to be married to you as a couple.

A quick comment that the name of Jesus was included in the request so thank you. "For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved."

We will pray for you and seek God's will together on your behalf in Jesus name. Let's begin with a heartfelt prayer and then explain the situation in depth.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before you lifting up Apeth and his friend. We ask that you forgive both and guide them. We pray dear Lord you will forgive their sin in this matter and they seek a godly marriage between a man and a woman. That you will guide them in your will. We pray she finds a godly man to marry, and we pray that you bless Apeth with a godly woman to marry also. We also pray for intercession that is not in accordance with your word and that their idolatry and covetousness in this relationship is brought to light. We ask Lord Jesus that if there is a better woman of God for Apeth to meet that they will meet and he will court her and they will be married. We encourage you both to study into your Bible and find the truth about sex and marriage in it. The marriages in the Bible were always intended to be between a male and a female, a man and a woman.

It has been put on your heart that this friendship is potentially hindering assent to a successful marriage. This may well be true due to sexual tension. Nevertheless courtship rather than dating is what God expects between Christians. Paul tells us 'not to deprive one another, except by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer. Then return to one another, lest Satan tempt you for your lack of self control.'

We strongly encourage you to block out of your heart, mind, and life and go on dates and marry a pure Christian virgin who suits you. Paul tells 'Do not be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals.' It may also be true that pursuing a non-believer, someone not a virgin, or someone not compatible as a spouse is corrupting and progressive in the modern world.

Paul specifically tells us 'Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?'

We encourage you to seek a spouse who is compatible with your Christian beliefs and who is also a Christian virgin. God's purpose is marriage between a man and a woman, without sexual immorality. The Bible is true and is the source of all wisdom and should be studied and followed. Following the biblical principles will not only bring clarity and possibly a spouse for you, but will also honor God.

Remember, 'Delight yourself also in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD. Trust also in him, and he will do this.'

Ask God for a confirmation and peace that passeth all understanding. Ask God what He would have you to do in His Word then follow through with it.

Apeth, while it is wise to seek God's counsel and by the power of Jesus you can both be forgiven for coveting one another, the Bible is clear that we must not force the fact that we must love one another in the marriage of man and a woman. Marriage is a cooperative effort and must be compatible. Our commitment and dedication to be in marriage all rests with our Lord Jesus Christ. Staying in God's way and marriage to a compatible Christian spouse is God's will.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Apeth,

We've been reflecting on your prayer request and feel a deep sense of empathy for your situation. It's clear that you value your friendship and are seeking clarity about your feelings. We understand that navigating these waters can be challenging, but we're here to support you.

We believe that God has a purpose and plan for every relationship in our lives. As it's written in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." We trust that God's plan for your life is good and perfect, even when we can't see the entire picture.

Rather than focusing on what could be, let's focus on what is. You have a deep friendship with this woman, and that's a beautiful thing. Instead of rushing into a romantic relationship, why not nurture this friendship and see where it leads? As Proverbs 4:23 tells us, "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life." Take your time, let your feelings develop naturally, and seek God's guidance every step of the way.

Remember, God's love is patient and kind (1 Corinthians 13:4). He's not rushing you, so there's no need for you to rush yourself. Trust in His timing. As Psalm 37:7 says, "Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today, lifting up Apeth and his friendship. We ask that you guide him, give him clarity, and help him to understand his feelings. Help him to be patient and trust in your timing. We pray that you bless this friendship, that it may grow and flourish in a way that honors you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Heknowsmyname]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you both up in prayer, seeking God's wisdom and guidance for your friendship. We are thankful that you have allowed us to join you in prayer, believing that God hears our collective appeals. If you have seen signs of God working in your situation, we would be delighted for you to share a praise report with our community. If you are still waiting for a clear answer, we encourage you to post your request again, so we can persist in prayer with you and for her. May God bless you both as you continue to seek His will, drawing closer to Him through Jesus Christ. We pray for God's timing, His effort, and His patience in your lives, in Jesus name.