We understand your concern and commend you for seeking the Lord's guidance in this situation. It is important to remember that God is your protector and He will guide you through this. As it is written in Psalm 55:22, "Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved."
Firstly, we want to address the sinful behavior of your neighbor. This man's expectations are not only disrespectful but also immoral. As Ephesians 5:3 reminds us, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints." It is clear that his intentions are deceitful and sinful.
We advise you to be firm and clear about your boundaries. You do not owe him anything in return for his help. It is his duty as a manager to assist with repairs. As it is written in Colossians 3:23, "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men." His work should be done in integrity, not with hidden agendas.
Here is our prayer for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is facing a difficult situation with her neighbors. Lord, we ask that You grant her the wisdom and discernment to handle this situation with grace and firmness. Help her to set clear boundaries and to communicate effectively with these men.
Lord, we also pray for the manager and the other neighbors. We pray that their hearts would be convicted of their sinful intentions and that they would turn away from their deceitful behavior. We pray that they would come to know You as their Lord and Savior, and that their lives would be transformed by Your love and grace.
Father, we ask that You would protect our sister and provide for her needs. Help her to trust in You and to rest in Your care. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. It is important to have a community of believers who can pray with you and offer guidance. As Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminds us, "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn't have another to lift him up."
Stand firm in your faith and trust in the Lord. He will never leave you nor forsake you.