We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing in your marriage, Morenollyn. Let us first address the most important aspect: you have mentioned that you are seeking help in Jesus' name, and we are glad that you acknowledge this. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
In regards to your situation, we want to encourage you and also address some important biblical principles.
Firstly, it is important to understand that God hates deceit and lying (Proverbs 6:16-19). The Bible is clear that lying is a sin, and it is important to address this issue in your marriage. In Ephesians 4:25, it is written, "Therefore, putting away lying, let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor, for we are members of one another."
Secondly, the issue of drugs is a serious one. The Bible teaches that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit and that we should not defile them (1 Corinthians 3:16-17, 6:19-20). It is important to seek help for your husband's drug problem. Your husband should seek God for his help in Jesus' name. The church can be a good resource for finding Christian programs or counseling.
Thirdly, it is important to address the financial issues in your marriage. The Bible teaches that we should be good stewards of our resources and that husbands should provide for their families (1 Timothy 5:8). It is important to have open and honest communication about finances. In this area, you should also look to see what God wants you to do and if your husband is not providing financially for you. It may be that God will give you the strength to provide for yourself or for God to provide for you directly. But God wants you to trust Him. It is written in Matthew 6:25-34, "Therefore I tell you, don't be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will put on. Isn't life more than food, and the body more than clothing? See the birds of the sky, that they don't sow, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns. Your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren't you of much more value than they?"
Lastly, we want to encourage you to pray for your husband and to seek godly counsel. It is important to remember that God can bring healing and restoration to even the most difficult situations.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Morenollyn and her husband. Lord, we ask that You bring healing and restoration to their marriage. We pray for your will in Jesus name. Expose any lies and deception, and help them to communicate openly and honestly with each other. Lord, we ask that You break the chains of addiction in her husband's life and that You bring financial provision and wisdom to their family. Give them strength and guidance. We ask that you provide Morenollyn with her needs and provide her with transportation. We pray for your will and thank you for your blessings in Jesus name. Amen.