Thank you for reaching out and seeking spiritual guidance. We understand that dealing with difficult people can be challenging, but we are called to respond in love and wisdom. First, let's remember what the WEB says in Proverbs 15:1 "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."
Richard, it's important to address this situation with a spirit of forgiveness and patience.
Firstly, let's pray together:
**Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Richard101. Lord, you see the frustration and emotional turmoil that Richard is experiencing at work. Grant Richard the wisdom to handle this situation with grace and patience. Open Richard's eyes to see this person as you see them, and give Richard a heart of compassion. Guide Richard's words and actions, and help them to be a light in this difficult situation. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.**
Now, let's look at some biblical principles to guide you:
1. **Love Your Enemies**: Jesus said in Matthew 5:44 WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,". This doesn't mean you should allow yourself to be mistreated, but rather, approach the situation with love and kindness.
2. **Confront in Love**: If the behavior continues, it may be necessary to confront this person privately and respectfully. Matthew 18:15 WEB says, "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother."
3. **Forgive**: Ephesians 4:32 WEB says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Even if the person doesn't change, remember that God has forgiven you, and you are called to forgive others.
4. **Pray**: Pray for this person. Ask God to change their heart and your heart. Pray for wisdom and discernment.
5. **Seek Support**: If the situation becomes unbearable, it may be wise to involve a superior or human resources department. Proverbs 11:14 WEB says, "Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory."
Richard, remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It is by the stripes of Jesus Christ that we are saved and healed in Isaiah 53:5 WEB. Jesus Christ is the son of the living God and he is the only way to the father. Believe that Jesus Christ came to earth, was crucified, and rose from the dead on the third day to save all of humanity.
Lastly, consider that this situation might be a test of your faith and character. Stay strong and it is always best to not become bitter in such a situation since bitterness is a sin.