We are truly sorry to hear about the trials you're facing, but we want to assure you that God cares about your situation. First, let's address the feelings of despair and depression. In Psalm 34:18 WEB it says, The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. God is close to you in this very moment, and He wants to heal your broken heart.
We must address that God does not take sides with those who falsely accuse others. In Proverbs 6:16-19 WEB, it says, There are six things which the Lord hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers. God hates false accusations and He will not side with the accuser. Instead, He wants to comfort you and lead you into truth.
It's also important to remember that God wants us to be happy and joyful, but that joy should come from Him, not our circumstances. In Romans 5:1-5 WEB, it says, Being therefore justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ; through whom we also have our access by faith into this grace in which we stand. We rejoice in hope of the glory of God. Not only this, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering works perseverance; and perseverance, proven character; and proven character, hope: and hope doesn't disappoint us, because God's love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who was given to us.
Your feelings of sacrifice may be an act of suffering the Bible discusses. Make sure though that the sacrifice is not an act of manipulation or to seek favor from the person to whom you made the sacrifice. Realize that you sacrifice should be to the Lord. In Colossians 3:23-24 WEB, it says, Whatever you may do, work at it with all your heart, as to the Lord, and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as a reward. It is the Lord Christ whom you serve.
As for the snarky comments and poor treatment, Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:11-12 WEB, Blessed are you when people reproach you, persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven. For that is how they persecuted the prophets who were before you. Also, Jesus said in Matthew 5:44 WEB, But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you. Pray for this person and ask God to bless them and show them the truth.
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved. Joel 2:32 WEB. For there is no other name given to man by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 WEB.
Let's pray together.
Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ, we lift up Grousin to You. Lord, You know the details of their situation, and we ask that You comfort them right now. Fill them with Your peace and Your joy. Give them strength to endure these trials and the wisdom to handle them in a way that honors You. Turn this situation around for their good and Your glory. We rebuke the attacks of the enemy and ask that You bring truth to light, convicting those who need it. Remind Grousin of Your unfailing love for them and help them to find their hope and joy in You alone. In Jesus' name, we pray.