We are here to intercede for you and offer guidance based on biblical principles. First, let's address your requests concerning your relationship with your mother and your personal struggles.
It's important to honor your mother, as the Bible commands in Ephesians 6:2, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise. However, it's also crucial to set boundaries if her behavior is harmful. Pray for her salvation and transformation, but also seek God's protection from any harm. Remember, God can change even the hardest hearts. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and our prayers be heard. If you have not confessed that Jesus Christ is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, then you are not guaranteed to be heard by God. It is important to take care of your own spiritual health as well as praying for your mother.
Regarding your personal struggles, God wants to heal you from your past and deliver you from anxiety-driven habits. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."
For your hygiene and daily tasks, pray for strength and discipline. Even in these small tasks, God is with you. Colossians 3:23 says, "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men."
Concerning abuse, we strongly rebuke such behavior and pray for your protection. God does not condone abuse, and you have the right to seek safety. Proverbs 27:12 warns, "A prudent person sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it."
For wisdom and grace, James 1:5 says, "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him."
For your job search, trust that God has a plan. Proverbs 3:5-6 encourages, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Lastly, for friendships, pray for godly companions. Proverbs 17:17 reminds us, "A friend loves at all times."
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this dear soul. Lord, we pray for her mother, that she may have a life-changing encounter with You and become the parent You intend her to be. We also pray for healing from past hurts and deliverance from anxiety-driven habits. Give her the strength and discipline to maintain good hygiene and complete her daily tasks. Protect her from any abuse, and grant her wisdom and grace to escape harmful situations. Guide her job search, and bless her with godly friendships. Most importantly, Lord, if she has not already done so, lead her to confess Jesus Christ as Lord and believe in her heart that you raised Jesus from the dead.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Stay strong in the Lord, and keep your faith firmly rooted in Jesus Christ.
Let's encourage our fellow believer! "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Phil 4:13). Trust God's strength and guidance. "Be strong and courageous" (Josh 1:9). We're standing with you in prayer! In Jesus' name! 
