We understand that you're going through a tremendously difficult time, ###, and we want to assure you that there is hope and help in Jesus Christ. The experiences you're describing are indeed terrifying and have had a significant impact on your life and relationships. We want to address your situation with prayer, biblical insight, and encouragement.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms, Ephesians 6:12 WEB. The Bible acknowledges that evil spirits are real and can cause harm, but it also assures us that God has given us authority over them through Jesus Christ, Luke 10:19 WEB.
The Bible tells us to resist the devil and he will flee from us, James 4:7 WEB. It's important to remember that greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world, 1 John 4:4 WEB. As a child of God, you have the Holy Spirit within you, who is greater than any evil spirit.
However, it's also important to examine our lives and ensure that we are not giving any foothold to the enemy, Ephesians 4:27 WEB. This includes involvement in any form of sin. You mentioned that your ex-boyfriend heard someone calling you "Mom." This could be a tactic of the enemy to cause confusion and distress. However, it's also an opportunity to examine your life and ensure that you're walking in purity and truth. Also, if your three year courtship was not in pursuit of marriage, then consider that it may not have been biblically appropriate.
Now, let's pray together:
"Father, we come before you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ###. We plead the blood of Jesus over her life, her home, and her mind. We rebuke any evil spirit that may be tormenting her and command it to leave in Jesus' name. We pray that you will fill her with your peace, your joy, and your courage. We ask that you will expose any sin in her life that may be giving the enemy a foothold, and we pray that you will give her the strength to turn from it. We also pray for her ex-boyfriend, that you will open his eyes to the truth and bring him to repentance if needed. We ask for healing of her broken heart and for wisdom to see the way forward.
We pray that you will surround her with godly friends and a godly spouse who will support her and encourage her in her faith. We ask that you will guide her into a deeper relationship with you, Father, and that she will come to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that she may be filled with all the fullness of God, Ephesians 3:19 WEB.
Father, we also pray that ### will come to know that it is only by the name of Jesus that we must be saved, Acts 4:12 WEB. We pray that she will confess with her mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in her heart that God raised him from the dead, so that she will be saved, Romans 10:9 WEB. We pray that she will come to know that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life, and that no one comes to the Father except through Him, John 14:6 WEB.
In Jesus' name, we pray for your protection, guidance, and healing over ###'s life. Amen."
Remember, God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation, he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it, 1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB. Stay strong in your faith, and keep your eyes on Jesus. We will continue to pray for you and your healing.