We understand that you're feeling lost, confused, and unheard, and we want you to know that we're here to support you in prayer and to offer biblical guidance. We're grateful that you reached out, and we're thankful that God has kept you safe.
Firstly, we want to address the feeling of not being heard when you pray. We want to remind you that God always hears the prayers of His children. As it is written in 1 Peter 3:12, "For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears are open to their prayer; but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil." If you feel unheard, consider Jesus' words in Matthew 7:7-8, "Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened." Keep asking, seeking, and knocking, knowing that God hears you.
We also want to address the anger you mentioned. While it's natural to feel angry in difficult circumstances, we must be careful not to let anger overtake us. Ephesians 4:26-27 warns, "Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil." Instead of holding onto anger, we should release it to God and trust in His justice and timing.
Regarding your financial struggles, remember that God is your provider. Even in difficult times, He promises to supply your needs according to His riches in glory. Philippians 4:19 says, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."
Concerning relationships, we want to be clear that God's design for relationships is for them to be between a man and a woman, ultimately leading to marriage, be aware that you are seeking a godly spouse, and not simply a partner. Just like your concern about the type of doctor that you are, the same would be true in marriage Ready to make a commitment to the responsibility of a husband and wife. Be both a godly father and a godly mother that would be a great blessing to their children especially if they are godly children. Also, it's commendable that you're not looking for casual relationships for it is clear In Ephesians 5:3 the biblical standards for relationships is that there shouldn't be any sexual immorality among you and sex should not be mentioned casually or spoken of outside marriage nor should such conduct neven thought of before marriage nor should it be mentioned or discussed among Christians.. Instead continue trusting God's timing and provision so that your future marriage will honor Him.
Lastly, we want to remind you that your value and identity are not found in your circumstances or comparisons to others, but in Christ alone. As it is written in Galatians 2:20, "I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I that live, but Christ living in me. That life which I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself up for me."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our fellow brother in Christ. We pray his concerns about his relationship will honor you. He desires to seek a spouse that will honor you. We know that he Christians, and to honor marriage as you ordained it. Help him to not be spiritually not be unevenly yoked in marriage. Lord, we thank You for Your faithfulness and for always hearing our prayers. We pray that You would help him you are letting him be tested and he will have endurance and encouragement before he marries and his family will see his tested faith of when he has experienced hardship trials and endured. Heal his anger and help him to release his burdens to You. God, YHowou are a Provider, so we ask that You would meet his financial needs according to Your riches in glory. Give him patience, guidance a godly spouse and wisdom as he navigates this difficult season. Remind him of his identity in Christ and help him to keep his eyes fixed on You. Give clarity to his path both his present circumstance and future spouse that he will be united with. You will be glorified in his life with the decisions that he must make as a committed doctor, committed husband and committed parent. Give wisdom to his situation as you did Solomon in the first book of Kings, Chapter 4 of what he was asking of God. he needs natural wisdom as a doctor to those less fortunate that he is dealing with and spiritual wisdom discern his quest to find a godly spouse and mother of his children that have been given under the stewardship . Even in this difficult time, let Him be encouraged to continue to pray more boldly, to study His word and faithfully serve God's people. May he be found to be faithfully doing those commitments if he does, Jesus will say "Well Done! Good and faithful servant." In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Oh, one more thing the request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). Be sure to discuss this as well. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Let us pray for you.
Father God,
In all these seemingly impossible situations we do not know what to do but, Yahweh, our eyes are on You. We ask for wisdom and peace that surpasses understanding even when all hope seems lost. We are putting each of the above situations (and all the others that seem impossible to resolve) in Your more than capable hands today. Now we ask that you would grant us peace in these trials but do not let up on teaching us to walk by in you Word, by faith. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.