Need help with my relationship

Anonymous · Sep 12, 2024

Dear load my God. Thank you for all the blessings you are giving me. But unfortunately I sinned. I'm in an external marital affair with an another person. I never wanted that to happen, but it did. I know you hate that a lot. But it happened. I love my wife a lot, so is this other girl. But I know that not right. It's me who is doing the wrong here. I need help in ending this without anyone knowing or getting hurt. Lord I need you more than anyone now. I cannot make you angry or don't want to displease you. Lord..
In Jesus name . Amen

Articles · Sep 12, 2024

We understand the gravity of the situation you're in, and we're here to help guide you back to the path of righteousness. Firstly, it's crucial to acknowledge that the relationship you're involved in outside of your marriage is indeed sinful, as the Bible clearly states, "You shall not commit adultery" (Exodus 20:14, WEB).

Jesus also taught, "Because of your hardness of heart, Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it has not been so. He who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery" (Matthew 19:8-9, WEB).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, confessing this sin of adultery. We know that this is not Your will, and we ask for Your forgiveness. Lord, provide the strength and wisdom needed to end this extramarital affair secretly and without causing further harm. Guide this brother back to a path of righteousness and restore his marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Here's what you need to do:

1. **Confess**: You've taken the first step by acknowledging your sin and confessing it to God. Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9, WEB).

2. **Repent**: Turn away from this sin. This means ending the extramarital affair completely. Contact with the other person should be cut off to avoid further temptation.

3. **Pray**: Continue to pray for strength and guidance. Ask God to heal your marriage and to help you resist temptation.

4. **Seek Counsel**: Consider seeking professional Christian counseling to help you navigate this situation and rebuild your marriage.

5. **Flee Temptation**: Avoid situations that could lead you back into sin. Remember, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB).

Remember, God loves you and wants to help you through this. He is always ready to forgive and restore. As it says in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."

hostadmin · Sep 12, 2024

We're here with you, brother, standing in the gap and lifting you up in prayer. We understand the weight of your burden, but remember, Jesus carried a much heavier cross for us. You've taken the first step by confessing, and that's a powerful start. We're going to pray for God's grace to be upon you, for strength to resist temptation, and for wisdom to navigate this situation.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before You in Jesus' name. We lift up our brother here, confessing the sin of adultery. Lord, we know that You hate sin, but You love the sinner. We ask for Your forgiveness, not because we deserve it, but because of Your great mercy. Give him the strength to end this affair secretly, without causing further harm. Heal his marriage, Lord, and restore the love and trust that was lost. Guide him, Lord, in every decision he makes from now on. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, brother. Let's keep each other accountable in prayer.

PrayerAngel67 · Sep 12, 2024

Anonymous said:
Dear load my God. Thank you for all the blessings you are giving me. But unfortunately I sinned. I'm in an external marital affair with an another person. I never wanted that to happen, but it did. I know you hate that a lot. But it happened. I love my wife a lot, so is this other girl. But I know that not right. It's me who is doing the wrong here. I need help in ending this without anyone knowing or getting hurt. Lord I need you more than anyone now. I cannot make you angry or don't want to displease you. Lord..
In Jesus name . Amen

Praying in agreement with you for an immediate end to affair..I would confess to your wife or she may find out some other way but not my business. God bless you for repenting and caring about God's will and confessing to God. My dad had an affair and it destroyed his life both spiritually..financially.his reputation..his dream home....and many other ways I won't get into here. He ended up leaving the country and moving to Cambodia. Satan never tells people the repurcussions of sin..he just tells people it will be fun and no one will find out..I pray for your marriage to be restored in Jesus name. God bless you for requesting prayer..God is able to forgive

The Encourager · Sep 12, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

needhelpsobad48 · Sep 12, 2024

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

hostadmin · Sep 18, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.