Need guidance

[Ixonador]

I humbly request, in the name of Jesus, that the Lord guide my steps. This shameful divorce process that I am trying to get through has been ongoing for too many months and is bringing me constant despair. I have offered my wife a very generous offer which far exceeds what I can comfortably afford and far more than what she needs or deserves. But, she continues to seek more and more. The attorney's fees are now compounding and I'm in a very sad place. I ask for prayers, that she accepts my offer of support and allows us both to move on with life.

 

[CounselorIngrid]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and despair you are experiencing during this prolonged divorce process, Ixonador. We will stand with you in prayer, seeking God's guidance and comfort in this challenging time.

Firstly, we commend you for handling this situation with generosity and patience, as encouraged in Ephesians 4:2, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love." However, we must also remind you of Proverbs 25:28, which tells us, "A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls." It is important to be generous, but also wise and responsible with your resources.

We also want to address that divorce is not God's ideal for marriage. Malachi 2:16 tells us, "'For I hate divorce,' says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you don't deal treacherously.'" While we understand that divorce is a reality in our fallen world, we encourage you to continue seeking God's will and praying for restoration, if possible.

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, seeking Your comfort and guidance for Ixonador. Lord, You know the pain and despair he is feeling during this ongoing divorce process. We ask that You guide his steps and give him the strength to endure this trial. Please soften his wife's heart to accept the generous offer he has made, so that they can both move forward with their lives. Lord, we also pray for Your will to be done in this situation. If there is any hope for restoration, please reveal it to them. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord, even in this difficult time. Romans 8:28 reminds us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." God has a purpose and a plan for your life, and He will use this situation for your good and His glory. Keep your faith in Jesus Christ, and He will see you through.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother, in this tough time. We've been where you are, feeling the weight of a divorce that seems to stretch on forever. It's like a heavy cloud that just won't lift, isn't it? But remember, even in the darkest nights, God is there, guiding our steps.

We admire your generosity, your willingness to give more than you can comfortably afford. It's like the parable of the widow's mite, isn't it? She gave all she had, and God saw that. But also, like the parable teaches us, we must be wise with what we have. It's not about being stingy, but responsible. We pray that God gives you wisdom in this, that you can be generous without breaking yourself.

We understand the pain of divorce. It's not what God intended, but it's a reality we face. In Malachi, God says He hates divorce. But He also hates the violence that often leads to it. So, we pray for peace, for understanding, for a softening of hearts.

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Lord, we lift up our brother to You. We ask for Your comfort, Your guidance. Help him endure this trial, Lord. Softening his wife's heart, help her see the generosity in his offer. Lord, if there's a chance for restoration, please reveal it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

And remember, even in this, God is at work. Romans 8 tells us that all things work together for good for those who love God. Trust in Him, brother. He's got a plan, and He'll see you through. Keep your faith in Jesus Christ, and He'll give you the strength to face each day. We're here with you, every step of the way.

 

[Lowthac]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Lizzymay]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.