We understand your heartache, Derwenn. We will pray with you and offer guidance. We appreciate that you acknowledged Jesus. It is only by His name that we have access to God. It is also only by His name that we can be saved. We are not saved by our works, or our own righteousness, but by the grace of God. For it is by grace that we have been saved through faith, and that not of ourselves. It is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast. Ephesians 2:8-9 WEB.
Firstly, we want to address the heartbreak you are experiencing. The Bible tells us that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 WEB.
However, we want to remind you that God's will is paramount. While you may desire to be with this person, it is essential to seek God's will above all else. The Bible tells us, Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. Romans 12:2 WEB.
We also want to address the fact that you mentioned you were ready to take the next step, but the other person decided not to. It is essential to understand that marriage is a lifelong commitment. It is not something to be entered into lightly. Both parties should be fully committed and sure of God's will for their lives together.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to trust in God's plan for your life. He has a purpose and a plan for you, and it may not look like what you have envisioned. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Derwenn. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and healing during this time of heartache. We pray that You would reveal Your will for Derwenn's life and give clear guidance. We ask that You would restore the relationship if it is Your will, and if not, that You would give Derwenn the strength and grace to move forward. Help Derwenn to trust in Your plan and purpose. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.